I don't know if its just me, but I feel bad every time I buy something for myself like I think I just spend $20 on this when I could of brought my son a pack of wipes! I mean I'm not those moms that doesn't buy there babies stuff I hardly buy myself anything but when I do I feel bad:( I haven't been able to get my eyebrows/nails done because I think I can use that money for my babies!!!
okay I feel better knowing im not the only one that feels this way, my husband as well gets mad cuz he like I know you want it just get it and I'm like no I can do with out it!! its hard but only us mothers understand our selfs hahaha!! @nicholefrank @rayymarie
my husband and I are the same way, I go into tjmax to get clothes for myself (I'm bigger now after my pregnancy) and I always walk out with stuff for the baby. its like in my head he needs more than I do when in all reality he has too many things and I have one pair of yogas I wear.
Same way!! my bf gets mad cus he's like we're always buying for the kids, and YOU never wna get anything. I can't help it to think the same way tho, what I spend on myself, culd hve gone to the kids. but we mothers should be able to treat ourselves as well, but it's guiltful lol.
really?! my son as well has a lot of stuff but we still buy him things and now that this other baby is on its going to be hard:/ I just don't wanna feel bad when I buy something for myself!!
my SO & I do that.. so much that we have to spend money on us now to keep up with him.. this boy has things he will never wear cause he will be grown out of it before I can get it on him.. but anywhere we go I always do that " I can live without this $20 top, but I can get Oakley, this & this & this "
I always push my husband to get stuff but I never get anything, I feel better about myself doing that. but he's always like "no I don't need it" so I usually grab it and pay for it because I know he won't. @1130nnne