I am glad I could help and hopefully it has a lot to do with hormones I hopefully so that maybe you can get some relief soon lol also u should probably talk to your dr and maybe they can help with some of the depression I would just hate for it to turn into ppd I deal with depression a lot myself it was really bad in the first trimester but it has eased in the second :) good luck to you and your family I am sure you will be fine :)

@harrisonfamily11, thanks for ur advice ur right he's been thru alot as it is I'm his only family my kids see him as daddy an he's been there thru my dark days with me I'm jus gona suck it up an deal with it I kno im a strong women an i can do this thanks again for ur advice really open my eyes...

just imagine how you would feel if someone took ur baby half way across the country and there was nothing you could do about it....if he is on probation there is nothing he can do about that he can't just pack up and leave...I mean he could but that is not a good idea. I'm just saying put yourself in his shoes for a min if he is a good dude like u said then I think u should suck it up and do what is best for your family now you should look for groups in your area for support I'm sorry if that came off rude I just think you should think about it from all angles before you make a life changing decision

just be open with him. you never know maybe he'll go with you when he can.

you can get together with moms with kids the same ages be friendly and dont think negative like they wont like u , just be yourself. also try joining a church community. idk what your beliefs are but being part of a group of believers helps a lot they are like family.

what state and city are u in?

@yahuahsdaughter, no I haven't tried any of those I'm gona consider it cus he's a great guy I love him to much

in my opinion a woman should be where her hubby is no matter what. you should have a serious talk with him and tell him you want to leave and tell him the date. no matter id he gets upset. you must takk about these things.

also hav u tried mom groups or hobby groups?

that's my ditch right now but thankfully my hubby is all for moving. Colorado here we come! talk to him about moving.

yeah my SO was highly upset when i left we hardly spoke after i left even when he came to kansas it took a few but you gotta be happy instead of sad and depressed. i know i get depressed still just because i have no friends here ether and i have my kids and SO.

@beckahhkathleen, I feel so bad cus its his first Bby but I'm miserable here I try an make friends but ppl look at me wierd here like if they kno I'm not from here...he doesn't have family so I dnt have anyone other than my kids to talk to i explained to him that I'd be better off in cali with my fam but he seems upset everytime I mention it😞

i have been in your shoes. my SO and i moved to fl while i was pregnant with my daughter. and i hated it i was miserable most of the time he was always working and never home. and i had nobody to talk to i didn't even have my son because he was with my parents for the summer. but i just left i didn't even tell him until the night before i felt horrible about it but i didn't want to argue. but when i got back to Kansas he was back a week later. but eventually we moved to Mississippi so i could start school here and its been better because he's off more and his job is understandable of him having a family.