Ladies! I am thinking that I only want it to be and my hubby in the delivery room and hospital for…

yes my family got mad at me and my boyfriend because we didn't want dem to come up to da hospital nor da room because we had been up since 5 dat morning and was tired and dey didn't understand dat

That's how my family and my daughter's other family was lol. It didn't bother me tbh, I had people to talk to 😂 I had a bunch of family members seeing me before the baby was born and when I was giving birth, there was a total of 9 or 10 people in my delivery room all huddled in a little corner lol mind you, only 3 of those people were my family, my mom, aunt and my moms boyfriend lol the exact minute I delivered my daughter, my grandma opened the door with my aunt and the doctors tried kicking her out cause it wasn't sanitary but she managed to weasel her way through 😂😂 so a total of 11 or 12 people lmao I was never bored and when they saw I was tired, they left lol and that's my story 😂

This time around I'll have less people cause my hubs family and I aren't that close but it'll probably be my mom, my aunt, my man, and his mom and hopefully my grandma. So that's already 5 people 😅

We just left it at hubs and me-they understood. My MIL didn't quite understand why she couldn't barge in right after, but eventually she got it. Good thing too, because dang near every nurse on the floor was there 😂

I just want my husband & my aunt to be there, 😊 not he's mom like he wants to 😒 I feel like I'm been bitchy about it but I really don't feel comfortable with his mom looking at my coochiie lol

its your baby and your vagina. I would honestly ask them if you can stare at their vagina for an hour and see how they like it. bet they would get the message then. we did the same. some family were mad but I told them I actually DONT feel comfortable with you looking at my vagina so. . . don't cave. its YOUR birth not theirs. and if hubs doesn't agree he can wait outside too.

not his vagina not his choice. ask him if your family can watch you both have sex and see what he says. that's a very private moment.

I only allowed my hubby and his mom in, none of his siblings and I didn't even want her there at first but it was a good thing she was because my baby came so fast they called the doctor way to late and hubby was sitting down about to pass out! mil had my leg and the nurse delivered!

with my first I had my MiL in with us (me and hubbs),even my sweet father in law wanted to be in there,but that wasn't happening!! with baby #2 it's only gna be hubby and I,My MiL got on my last nerve the first time and I'm not having it again!we're not even calling fam until after baby is out,I have showered,eaten,and rested!they will be upset but it's just me!

I am in the middle of that right now. I don't even want to tell anyone we're in the hospital until we are home. I'm glad my husband stands beside me with this one. now I just have to figure out what to do with our 12 year old son while I'm having baby. Good luck momma!

Im a ftm and i asked for only his mom my mom and dads to come over after birth and no visiting till me and baby are home... i think its important to make it clear that he/she needs to bond with you and daddy first and then gramma / grandpa... its all about bonding... yes the family is kinda mad but were having a welcoming dinner for baby girl. its your birth your baby make what you want vary clear, you shouldn't feel uncomfortable right u give birth... have them understand that. I talk to much