ugh I can't wait to move. like I know my mom will be a big help when babygirl gets here but why the fuck does it matter…

I don't get why they are being rude about a damn swing! How does it affect them in any way?! I'm sorry, mama. They should be nothing but excited and happy for you....it had to get put together sooner or later so why not?! What if baby came early or something...it's one less thing to have to stress about or rush to do! :(

I don't think that's too early whatsoever. That's just ridiculous... I'm only 23 weeks and am starting to put stuff together. What happens if baby comes early, and you are not able to put things together? Are they gonna bitch at you for NOT doing it early enough? LOL

@babymadelyngrace, yeah I don't know why it's such a big deal either! like how can you say it's too early to put it together when your thinking I have a longer time to go then I really do!? I go to the doctor tmrw to get checked to see if im dialating any... there's a chance, even if it is small, that I could go into labor in a cpl of days or a week, but no matter what tmrw I will have 13 days until I have her... that's not a long time, and it pisses me off that her Damn swing can't sit in the living room for a few extra days until it's needed...

@babymay2016, lol I know right!! I have put everything together BY MYSELF, and I like I said, her truck is fucked up and my step dad is trying to do a job that even an experienced mechanic has problems doing... so I have to sacrific my vehicle so she has a way to work or i have to get up at 430 in the morning to take her an hour to work.. so I don't see the big deal in me putting my daughter's fucking swing together while I'm sitting at home bored all Damn day bc she has my jeep... && to top it off... my step dad's vehicle sits in the Damn driveway all day bc he uses his work van but yet she has to use mine and I have to sit here all fucking day!!! ugh.. but y'all are both right.. @babymadelyngrace it's ridiculous..

@babymadelyngrace, @babymay2016 when my mom got pissy about it and said it was too early, I told them I'd put it in my fucking room and went and got it and started moving it and she's like "you don't have to do it now.. but I don't want it in the way until she gets here and that's why I told you not to put it together this early..." && I was like "well how about you sit here all fucking day with nothing to do!! I was bored so I put it together!! " she just walked out...

Ugh! She should've just not said anything at all in the first place! If it's such a big deal that she needed to say something negative about it, then she should let you solve the issue and put it in your room instead of telling you that she didn't want you putting it together early. It's already over and done with...and put together. Why make you even more upset about it and keep dragging it on! Some people need to think about the things they say to people!

@babymadelyngrace, I agree! don't get me wrong I love my mom and I'm very grateful to be living here for free.. but I do alot that doesn't include paying anything. like her using my jeep every Damn day.. cleaning while I sit here all day, taking care of the dogs, using my food stamps and wic to put food in the house while her husband(whom she is separated from but still lives here) fucking drinks all my milk and eats dinner with us most of the times. like I know it's not alot, but fuck.. it's enough for me at 9 months pregnant, and I didn't think a swing getting put together was that big a deal. plus it's a nice swing and I was excited to put it together, 😒

you're excited ! and nesting! plus, it's better to be prepared rather than doing things last minute. they should be happy you weren't procrastinating. sounds like they just need something to be angry about. don't let it get to you. you're gonna be a great momma

@mommabear2b, thank you mama! I literally never have shit to do bc she takes my vehicle so i have to sit home all day. I can only rearrange babygirls stuff around so many times, I can only sit and look at everything for so long, there's only so much stuff I can put together, and wash and put away... I'm just so ready to have my girl with me so I don't have to worry about all the bullshit. having her is all I look forward too