so stress rant for just a minute... I lost my job at the beginning of the month which caused us to not be Able to pay rent my fiance told me multiple times "don't worry babe I'll take care of it" well last week I received our eviction notice which said we had 5 days to pay or move out. in a pain I went to him to try and come up with a solution he said "don't worry I'll get it taken care of" so our deadline day was today and I asked him 6 times to call the landlord and speak with them and see if they would work with us because we don't have the funds he tells me "why can't you do it?!" uh I had my car insurance company to call and talk with because the body shop who is working on my vehicle from a wreck last month is screwing me over so I thought it would be fair that he takes care of the landlord and I take care of my insurance issue. But he expects me as the pregnant one to deal with it all just because in not working right now... I haven't taken care of it myself because I was told many times it would be taken care of by him....where am I in the wrong in this? so tomorrow is the day we are suppose to be moved out because we didn't pay and he tells me he emailed them because I told him again to Call them before they close... so now I probably get to deal with landlords coming to kick us out tomorrow by myself because he will be at work. fantastic...
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I'll look into it. we are technically in Minnesota cause we live in la crescent and it's a house not an apartment. I'm just worried they are going to come to my door tomorrow it's an investment company that owns these homes then they rent them out. I'm not sure what to tell them if they do come to the door. it said in the eviction notice that after day 5 of no payment we are evicted but still responsible for paying all property cost until it is either rented out or our lease is up which the lease isn't up till October and I'm not sure how long it would take for them to rent it back out by why continue to charge me rent but kick us out? makes zero sense. @drodrigo239
look up online RENTER'S RIGHTS, also ask around for local community help that helps with paying rent, and sometimes there are even some churches in your area who help families.out in time of need.. just call around and ask
well if ur in Wisconsin,, yea ha have you an eviction notice for 5 days or whatever.. but that doesn't mean you have to be out!! seriously there is a thing for renters rights.... and if he changes the locks he has to give u guys keys, he literally has to take you to court to have you evicted from your apartment, cuz if u don't pay by a certain day then they will tell the landlord he then can have u evicted by a certain day that the judge assigns... but it's winter so, people are more leniant on that in winter, but if u guys go to court and you cant pay, and arent moved by the day the judge says... he can call the cops the and have the sheriffs department physically remove you from your house!!
I don't think I can leave the father of my child/man I'm marrying next year he deserves to be around through this process and he can't leave because the job he has is great and better than any other job he would have ever gotten back in my hometown so it kinda sucks. can't just leave when times are tough otherwise everyone would be getting divorces and no one could hold down a relationship. just an really unfortunate situation and time for all this to be happening. @anniewakeen
i kinda know how you feel with losing your job but honestly if i were you id go back to my family!! .. its hard to have to depend on others but even harder when its his family i can only imagine, hopefully it wont come to that point!
Yeah well unfortunately I moved 750 miles away from my home and family to move up here with him for a job and all his family lives here so it's kinda like if we fail we are stuck living with him family I just met 6 months ago and it's awkward for me I hate living off of other people. just annoying I'm pissed that I lost my job and we are in the situation we are in makes me worry about where we are going to be when baby is born @babymay2016 and thank you I appreciate it! I hope it does to @anniewakeen
I think they feel like they will always have a place to go back to or someone will clean up the mess for them or something.. But for me if I'm gonna have a place and be an adult, there is no looking back. Its one thing just being one person and fucking up and having to go back to your parents, but I'm about to have a baby. There is no fucking up and just having a place to fall back on... Its up to me myself and I to take care of myself and my child.
I totally understand that. It seems to take men so much freaking longer to understand how to be adults. My baby daddy never got it and I just could not stand living with him. We were always struggling for unnecessary reasons, because he couldn't possibly just anticipate for when something wrong does happen like losing a job, car troubles, etc.. I like to be prepared for things like that. I like to have extra money saved up in case something like this happens, but to him I'm being negative and it will be taken care of. Nah man I'm just being realistic. Especially with a baby, you must anticipate for struggles, in my opinion. I am only 21 but it seems simple to me. He is also 23 years old and so used to being "taken care of" that he doesn't know how to take care of his own. I don't know where I even got this shit from but hey I had to grow up so I did it. Tisk tisk... the fuck is wrong with them..?
well jesus I love the man to death known him for 4 years been with him for 2 but he was attached to the his mommies tit till I came around and he acts like he has no common sense as to wtf is going to happen if stuff doesn't get "taken care of" yes he is stressed cause he is the only one working and that's tough right now cause bills are piling up but I've been out of a car for over a week because this body shop failed to fix my car correctly and is now trying to blame me... I have been applying for work since the day I got fired and have not gotten an interview up until this week so it's not like I haven't been trying. just pisses me off that he's 24 and doesn't think about the fact that it's not just about him anymore it's not about his pregnant fiance and our child that's going to be here in 4 1/2 months. I shouldn't have to baby him it's time to grow up. @babymay2016
That is terrible 😥 this is exactly how my ex (baby daddy) would act. Tells you a million times not worry & it will be taken care of, and then last minute wonders why you didn't take care of it? This was a monthly thing. Like is where we LIVE not important to you and what do you expect us to do after? He done fucked up... You are definitely NOT in the wrong, in my opinion. He would get so mad at me for asking HOW he was gonna take care of it, when I need to know for this exact reason. I'm so sorry. Some guys are truly fucking dumb.
see of theres agencies to help, like renters assistance,,even though it's not an apartment.. they could still help possibly