im in the same situation both mine and boyfriends family lives out of town so I'm using the site UrbanSitter to find a sitter. (I myself nanny on there so am a little more comfortable with the process) but they have pretty strict sign up restrictions for sitters and its better than care.com.

I'm having to find a babysitter for when I go back to school when he's 3 weeks I'm still a nervous wreck about it lol but I started looking early.

that's why I'm so nervous to do it. there's so many bad and ugly people out there in the world now a days

i understand im stressing about the babysitting thing to and im barely going to be 5 months lol i wish you luck though ! and choose wisely theres so many weirdos out there and plus how clean a place is and how many kids they have can be bad

I don't have any family out here and my husbands family has been really difficult to work with babysitting wise. they can't ever watch him for more than 4 hrs. and I know that's a long time but we both work and we need to find someone whose avaliable for the seldom days where it's 5 or 6 hrs.. makes me really upset but it is what it is I guess. my friends all work as well so it's hard working with everyone's schedule considering I don't write my own. @jaydensmommy808

you dont have any family or friends who can help ?