I I so hate it so my husband said his going to choose the girls middle name and since my mom and his mom have the same name he wants that to be the middle name but his not doing it because of my mother his doing it for his but honestly I really don't want to give her that pleasure since she could be a bitch to me shes not a bitch only when she needs something what should I do to talk him out of it any advise girls pls or am I being selfish!!?
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Yeah i get anxiety so bad and get so mad and he tells me you need help like WTF I need help because I want my house back and I have a high risk pregnancy so I have to be on bed rest I still cook and clean and she takes credit for it and my mom is coming to town next week and I told him I want your mom out of that room for my mom and he said no and I told fine but I'm going to to the hotel with her and he said do what ever you want just so his mother can be comfortable it pisses me off so much because she is sleeping on the bed that I bought ugh this is so stressful @cpoe17
@nicole021995, this makes me angry stick to your guns becaus that is not okay. She needs to stay in her lane this your house and for her to invade your privacy I really could not deal I would leave now. How dare she thinks she gonna get your room. No me and my husband would argue forever about this. So what she tell him what he gonna do about it she gotta go. Nobody should be living with a couple expecting a baby. That's extra financial resources and emotional stress. I stayed with my mother in law and I had anxiety she was too much I had to get Away
Yeah I do make her feel uncomfortable but then she goes crying to my husband telling him that I did that and this and I already told him when the baby comes and she's not out I'm leaving he doesn't think I'll do it but I'm going to keep my word cause you know every relationship has there downs and when me and him argue she walks in OUR room telling me to stop screaming like its my house I can scream when ever I want and sometimes I'm in my underwear and she walks in my room without knocking and she tells me that I should where pants or something like I'm in my room oh and then she told him that she wants or room because it's bigger like nooooo bitch you ain't having he considered it and I told your stupid but hopefully he takes it in mind that I would leave if she is still here knowing her she will try telling me what to do with my baby @cpoe17
@nicole021995, oh hell no not my house she would have to go. 8 months feeling uncomfortable in your own home. Not me and as for your husband he should understand how you feel that not cool that's stress on the baby aswell. She could not an would not run my household two can play that game i would make her so uncomfortable she wouldn't want to be there. It will only get worse when the baby gets here.
Well Hun I hope the best for you and the name picking at the end of the day I signed the papers and named my little girl what I wanted whether my SO liked it or not I know horrible but he liked it so it was a win hahah as for the house if I was in the situation I would care what she said its my house and I'm gonna to whatever I want in my house and she has to live with it or get her own... But that's just me @nicole021995
I wish I could keep a distance since like half a year ago she lost her house and she got a divorce she moved in with us like this is my house and she wants to act like she runs stuff here and it gets me so so so MAD and all my husband tells me is just calm down this is is temporary and I'm all like is it she only said to give her a chance to stay heere for 2 months and it's been like almost 8 months I already told him I do NOT want her here when the baby is here and he told me you need to stop being like that like WTF really@cpoe17
@nicole021995, my mother in law tried to get me to have an abortion she tried to tell me I'm young and can have another baby later in life. Now she is just rude to me and only nice when she want something. She talks about me when she thinks I'm not around I walked in on her calling me all kind of name on my birthday!. I won't deal with her and she is not invited to my baby shower. He has no back bone when it comes to her so I choose to just keep my distance
That's what I'm hoping that I have a girl because I know it's also my moms name but it's not for her you know and his mom she's mean like she likes me but doesn't like me and when she found out I was pregnant she started talked shit saying that his SON wasn't ready and that he should leave me and what not so that's why I don't feel comfortable with my daughter having her name if I have a girl @cpoe17
@nicole021995, No you are not being selfish both my mom and his mom middle name is Marie and we already had a discussion that we were not doing that he asked and it was the same reason we argued about it but we flipped a coin if we were having a boy he could name of it was a girl I was to name and I had already picked out the name and because of her Marie was not in it. Thank good mess we found out he is a boy.
She tells everyone I'm lazy and that she does everything like bitch all you do is be in your room and when that door opens nothing but bull shit comes out @cpoe17