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My boyfriend's family is so ridiculous. So, I uploaded a video of my one month old daughter rolling…

My boyfriend's family is so ridiculous. So, I uploaded a video of my one month old daughter rolling over for the first time and his family freaked out saying she shouldn't be put on her tummy that early 😤 And that she can't breathe, she's gonna squish her own intestines.. and she could DIE from it.. blah blah blah. OKAY. First of all, the hospital and my pediatrician said it was perfectly fine to start 'tummy time' days after she's born, and I didn't even start until she was two weeks old. Second of all, if she was in ANY type of 'pain' or near fucking death doing tummy time, I would know because she would be screaming or crying her ass off. My bf is going off on me saying I should listen to HIS family and not let her do tummy time until she's 3-4 months old. Am I being a bad mother saying NO, I am going to continue doing tummy time with her because I know its only helping her development and honestly she enjoys it. I understand his families concern, but god damn. I put up a video of her rolling over for the first time because I was so proud and she accomplished it & his family sees it and has the nerve to say she's too young for that and that I shouldn't let her do that?! OMG. 😡😩😤

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kattastrophe

Bonnie

Мама дочки-младенца

she is perfectly fine with tummy time! the earlier the better. I started my daughter around 2-3 weeks.... actually, fun fact, the old rule when my mom was raising all 3 of her kids was that it was dangerous to let babies sleep on their BACK. they said babies could get reflux and choke if they weren't on their tummy

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blanca_boo

Blanca

Мама сына-младенца

You're definitely not being a bad mother. A lot of people haven't heard of doing that and didn't. My mom didn't do it with me and my other brothers so she's the same way. But she's never said those things. All I say is that's what his doctors said to do. You go off what your doctors told you and your instinct don't listen to no one else you're doing nothing wrong.

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hellosweetie

Alexandra McMillan

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Omg his family should not have anything to do with your daughter! They don't know what they're talking about. Your baby is developing normally and you're doing great by giving her tummy time! She should be learning to roll the other way and sitting up by 4 months, if you listen to them your baby will be behind for a while not ahead. Honestly, I tell your man that either he takes your side or nothin! His parents know NOTHING about babies!!! These people are pissing me off so bad, first the water now this??😡😡😠

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royalmommy

RoyalMommy

Мама двоих (младенец)

She is just fine. The doctor told me to do that also n it develops the strength for them to hold up their head. Continue to do your thing n tell them to pick up a book. "crush her intestines"?!?😂😂😂 Oh pls!

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missing98user

missing98user

Мама сына-младенца

No, that's not their child so they make no decisions when it comes to her. She's fine. The longer you wait, the longer they take to get used to it and actually enjoy it.

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mommytomia_

Romana

Мама дочки-младенца

@kattastrophe, @blanca_boo @hellosweetie @royalmommy omg. thank you ladies 💕 I just needed reassurance and to know that I wasn't the crazy one here. I can't tell you how frustrating it is to have someone try to tell me how to raise my own baby. like if she was dying OR IN ANY PAIN doing tummy time.. I would fucking know. she would be screaming and crying.

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tigerlilly

jennipher solis

Мама дочки-младенца

even tho i wanna wait til my lil one is 1 mo. it perfectly fine to start them off now. they should already be holding there selves up by them selves by 4-5mo. so what good is you waiting that long. people over react!! you do with your child as you see fit. and u agree , you and your man should be on the same page and im assuming you are the one primarily with the baby, he shouldnt being siding with anyone but you cause at this point no one knows your baby like you do.

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hellosweetie

Alexandra McMillan

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

You're doing fine, they can be on their tummies from the first day of birth! They just get tired and cranky at first and may not like it, but it certainly does not hurt them!!! As long as she's SLEEPING on her back

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mommytomia_

Romana

Мама дочки-младенца

@tigerlilly, yes.. thank you. I'm with her 24-7. while he works 6 days a week... he should trust me above all else.

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blanca_boo

Blanca

Мама сына-младенца

@mommytomia, you're welcome you know what you're doing don't let them get to you. things are just different from how they use to do things.

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mommytomia_

Romana

Мама дочки-младенца

@blanca_boo, thank you! yes. also

.. his family that is overreacting - lives in Vietnam so they don't know anyting about how babies are raised over here

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blanca_boo

Blanca

Мама сына-младенца

@mommytomia, that makes sense but at the same time that's too extreme. you are her mom you know best at the end of the day.

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mommytomia_

Romana

Мама дочки-младенца

@blanca_boo, I agree. I would never ever put her in danger. or even do anything that would cause her any pain....... if they don't trust me, they don't have to be in our lives(:

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deleted.user

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Tell your bf to ask google when in doubt! lmao that's honestly how i get my bf off my back if he ever tries telling me not to do something because his mom said i cant. Like is your mom a doctor? Are you a doctor? No. So sit your ass down ✋ Ignore them girl! I know i sure will! They better get with the program now cause them trying to be controlling is only killing the chances of you ever wanting your baby to be alone with them. You're doing a really good job! They'll realize later when your baby is doing awesome at a young age :)

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blanca_boo

Blanca

Мама сына-младенца

@mommytomia, you definitely don't its always the people that don't live near you that have the most to say because they don't see your day to day with your daughter. You keep doing what you're doing because its working and your daughter is beautiful.

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disneymomma

Emily L.

Мама сына-младенца

my son is 3 months old and his ped. has been instructing us since weeks old that i should be doing tummy time so no you are not wrong stay strong in the way you choose to raise YOUR child

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kreeblim

Dj

Мама дочки-младенца

Dang girly that sucks. They'd hate how I do it. My little lady has been doing tummy time since day 2

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elismommy428

Valeria Alonso

Мама сына-младенца

No one should be telling you how to raise your kid, specially if they're not changing diapers in the middle of the night with you, feeding her every 3-4 hours... TAKING CARE OF HER 24/7 .

My baby started tummy time when he was like 3 months and he HATED IT, it took him a while to start rolling over, so the younger they start the faster they'll learn 👌

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