my baby daddy is so FUCKING stupid and inconsiderate. we were together 3 years and have had our ups and downs, but for some reason I love his stupid ass and always go back to him. this time, I'm pregnant, and he's more mean and careless than ever, and I think it's cuz he knows that since I'm pregnant I'm stuck with him. right now I'm in the bathtub crying wondering why I'm not good enough for his time and affection. this is not how I pictured my pregnancy to be. 😢😢😢 #sorry #ihadtovent

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Samantha·Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (31 нед.)

@madi1194, I was stuck in a unhealthy relationship for 4 years with my sons dad. I loved him until my son turned 1. Then he changed because he was deployed the first year of my sons life. We were divorced when my son turned 2. It was so stressful up to that point that he said he didn't want the first child let alone trying for another before we split up. 5 years later I am remarried and happy as can with a baby on the way. My sons dad is never around anymore, he doesn't call him, he sees him 3 times a year max. He has another baby with his wife and you can see the difference in that relationship than with him and Cameron. It's sad. I felt stuck too and one day I decided enough was enough and never looked back. You can do it, just keep your head up and your eyes on the future.

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thanks ladies. y'all are all making me feel better and not so damn weak lol

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pattalee·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)

just because you're pregnant doesn't mean you're stuck with him. that baby doesn't need a father who doesn't love his/her mother. your love alone is enough for the two of you, plus some. leave his stupid ass. someone better will come along and love you and that child like it's their own

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Lily Freeman·В ожидании первенца

lol yes she bad af now ..soo lol she is better

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@ftm020216, thanks girl I'll remember that ... and yeah you real close to me that's wussup :) @lilfree16 I sure don't want that I want a lil peaceful happy baby lol

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Rhonda·В ожидании первенца

@madi1194, yes.. i will be 39 weeks tmrrw and i still find myself crying for no reason or over petty things.. so i knw its easy for us to tell u to stay strong vs doing so... but, you are so early in your pregnancy. . if u need to tlk u can always inbox me... i live close by as well in Arlington 😊

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Lily Freeman·В ожидании первенца

yep because your baby can feel it.. my God daughter came out all jumpy and paranoid because my friend was always stressed and nervous ..

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@lilfree16, @ftm020216 y'all right, I gotta be strong for me and mines. and yes they really are the devil lol

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Lily Freeman·В ожидании первенца

you'll be ok.. dont let him walk over you ! give him the finger and be out ..

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Rhonda·В ожидании первенца

@madi1194, i understand, and being pregnant do no justice. . hormones are the devil.. Lol, but keep your head up & stay strong

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stephanie·Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (33 нед.)

@ftm020216, @lilfree16 you took the words right now of my mouth...

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thanks ladies. I'm tryna be strong. it's just hard when it's someone you love so much but you know they ain't good for you ... thanks for the support 😘😘

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Rhonda·В ожидании первенца

@madi1194, don't cry momma.. its bad for the baby.. the 1st trimester is the most critical trimester. . be strong momma.. and never think you HAVE to be with him... you are too beautiful to settle. . 😘😘

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Lily Freeman·В ожидании первенца

chuck 50% of that to hormones.. the other half.. you already knew what he was like... tell him your done.

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