It's hard for some people to accept the fact they are being a parent. I know it's hard that he wasn't there for the whole pregnancy but he wants to be in his child's life just a month after he was born. Not years after your child is all grown up. I know you don't like him but it's time to think about your son and not you. Like I said you don't have to do anything with him no communication unless it's about your child you move on from him but just because you don't want anything to do with him don't make your child be on your side only he's half you and him.

the last thing he said to me when I found out I was pregnant was that he wanted nothing to do with me or the baby and that he doesn't do "feelings". I have a hard time believing that could just change. u can't just pick and choose when u want to be a parent.

People can change I know it sounds horrible but if I was in that situation I wouldn't let him back in my life but I would let him in my child's life if he really wants to be. Unless he's a harm to your child. But he does have a right even if he's not on the certificate. I know you would hate to for your child to later hate the fact that she had no option of k owing him because you thought that was best but might not be. Just a thought..

I have him blocked on all social media. and I changed my number back in December. He is blowing up my moms phone trying to get ahold of me.

I would seriously just block him off of everything, fb, phone, ect and if he persists tell him you're getting a restraining order.

You could tell him that the baby isn't his but that's kind of sleezy lol

@chhaya, he isn't. My son doesn't even have his last name.

Tell him to screw off. If he's not on the birth certificate then he has 0 rights.