how do I include my child and fiance when breastfeeding the baby I don't want them to feel left out
Well congrats!! at that age they love to help in any way possible, so even little things like blankets, grab a diaper, binky, and so on they love to do. my son will be 7 when his brother is born (march) and my daughter will still be 2 lol but she hates little kids...where he is super excited haha
when it comes to your other child, I use to just have my older sit on my lap while I breastfed his sister. so he got cuddles too. or I would have him get me my nursing pillow, or a blanket, and so on so he felt he was helping. he was 4 when his sister was born
Let him change diapers, bathe, dress, skin-to-skin bonding, read, sing. There are plenty of ways for a dad to bond with his baby...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I have a 5yo brother who got really jealous when my son was born because he was the center of attention. sometimes pump and let your daughter feed the baby a bottle. my brother LOVES to help feed him and I let him because he's still getting breast milk and they're bonding as well.