I have a 5yo brother who got really jealous when my son was born because he was the center of attention. sometimes pump and let your daughter feed the baby a bottle. my brother LOVES to help feed him and I let him because he's still getting breast milk and they're bonding as well.

Well congrats!! at that age they love to help in any way possible, so even little things like blankets, grab a diaper, binky, and so on they love to do. my son will be 7 when his brother is born (march) and my daughter will still be 2 lol but she hates little kids...where he is super excited haha

@ohsoawwsum, thanks that helped my daughter is 5

when it comes to your other child, I use to just have my older sit on my lap while I breastfed his sister. so he got cuddles too. or I would have him get me my nursing pillow, or a blanket, and so on so he felt he was helping. he was 4 when his sister was born

Let him change diapers, bathe, dress, skin-to-skin bonding, read, sing. There are plenty of ways for a dad to bond with his baby...