how do I include my child and fiance when breastfeeding the baby I don't want them to feel left out
Well congrats!! at that age they love to help in any way possible, so even little things like blankets, grab a diaper, binky, and so on they love to do. my son will be 7 when his brother is born (march) and my daughter will still be 2 lol but she hates little kids...where he is super excited haha
when it comes to your other child, I use to just have my older sit on my lap while I breastfed his sister. so he got cuddles too. or I would have him get me my nursing pillow, or a blanket, and so on so he felt he was helping. he was 4 when his sister was born
I have a 5yo brother who got really jealous when my son was born because he was the center of attention. sometimes pump and let your daughter feed the baby a bottle. my brother LOVES to help feed him and I let him because he's still getting breast milk and they're bonding as well.