can someone please make cents of this for me.. my baby daddy walked out on me and our unborn son when I was 9 weeks…

Stay with the best friend

Why you confuse bd already said he didn't want you or your baby so make him keep them words ...... Sweety he just wants you misable and not happy & tell him he can still be a daddy no1 stopn him 💁 and I'll give him the REAL father number who has been there every step of the way to find out what size, or do the baby need anything👊 @t643

and I agree with @alexusasia420

fuck baby dad, you got the winner by ya side already.

it sounds like he only wants control over you. Don't sacrifice your happiness with what might be's. I say you stay happy in your relationship and just allow him time with his child if that's what he really wants.

he had his chance

same thing happened to me and I left a good man thinking that I could be with the father of my son ..well it didn't work out he was cheating and come to find out the only reason he was trying to be there was to stay off child support. ...I thank the Lord rekindled what I had with the man that I left for that loser who now by the way has nothing to do with our son...I hope you make the right choice for you and your baby .because when I thought I was making the best decision for my son ended up only hurting him in the end..

From personal experience, if he's going to walk away once he will do it again. you can't really stop him from being a father IF he fights you on it. The court doesn't care if they were there during your pregnancy. As long as he's there for the child when he's born. The chances of him actually fighting are slim to none considering that he left so easily. Just giving you the scenarios. Seriously wouldn't take him back tho.

your ex is just a sperm donor not a father. it takes a real man to be a father,that one that walks out isn't him @t643 you know your choice don't break your bf heart for someone who didn't want it from the beginning

oh I know what to do @t643 DO NOT GO BACK. you found someone willing to take care of you and children that aren't even his that says a lot! ad even wants to marry you. the fact that you ex left you pregnant alone and the state he messed it up baddd I wouldn't do it.

I appreciate the advice bc honestly I'm stuck in a rock and hard place with feelings... yes part of me will always hold a special place for my baby daddy bc he was the man to father my first child... and want him in Thomas's life as much as possible.... but on the other hand i love the man I'm with and he's been there through the morning sickness the random cravings, first kicks and heart beats...

If he walked out in your most vulnerable moment he doesn't deserve you when you are up. My daughters father did the same thing and bc I moved on he has done nothing for her. No visits no nothing, but I feel it's better this way bc I'd rather her not have a POS like him in her life than have to know him and get hurt too.

I wouldn't be with him and in no way would I depend on him. I'd still let your child have a relationship with him because its the right thing to do for your baby unless you truly think your child would be in danger or something. And honestly he probably won't stick around much after either. Baby's are hard to handle and once he realizes it he'll probably split since he already has before :( sounds like my father.

you should forget about your baby daddy hes wrong for that. stay qith your man now

Honestly it's tough to say what's right when it's not my situation. However if you're happy with your new man I'd say ignore the baby Daddy he chose to leave. Don't break up your current relationship to be with someone that abandoned you and his unborn child. Who can honestly say he won't leave again? Stay strong and don't give in to the baby Daddy drama.

Dont be with him you obviously found someone better , let him be apart of your childs life but thats all .

If he walked out on u once... He'll do it it again trust and believe ... I'd stay w the man that's been there for u since week 9

I say follow your brain, your heart can be cloudy.... if he left once chances are he will leave again personally I'd keep the man that was there for you when it mattered the most@t643

Babe girl take one day at a time. Always trust your heart in situations as these. I'm sure you are not the first to experience this kind of situation. I will constantly keep you in prayer. the most important thing now is your child.as long as you doing what's right for your child that all that should matter not anything else because all is going to cause is stress