so this post is for all my ladies especially that is having a baby with a man that also has children already with…

She crazy

@jessiah16, yeah my fiancé's ex is a piece of work she makes all SAHM'S look bad... she dosnt work to support her kids and expects the man to do it all for her..

@aphrodite2014, oh see hell fucking shit ass no smh that's so wrong I don't like her already

@jessiah16, yeah I'd be putting back money for a lawyer to be honest.. my fiance and I are going through that right now.. he and his ex had a verbal agreement and she got mad when he had to have life saving surgery and couldn't pay her her 1k a month and so she said no money no kids and he hasn't seen the since. the only reason he has gotten to talk to them is because the kids bugger about talking to him enough thay she let them talk on christmas and the 23rd Olds birthday.. that's it in over 6 months

@aphrodite2014, as she did the whole time me n him been together

@emily18234, oh I see what u saying now and we'll said n yea that is true .. smh I guess it could be worse Idk how to feel right now

@jessiah16, hell no she can fuck him over of he dosnt keep tract of what he gives her and there's no need for her to ask for money.. if she dosnt have the kids she should be working to make her own money! he needs to get into the Sargent generals office and get a DNA test and pay through the state, because even if he is on the birth certificate he has no legal rights to the kids or to pay child support.. that's how you get screwed over right there coming to a mutual agreement because she can change her mind at any time

he makes 70k a year and lives in his parents basement. no one needs an additional 700 a month when they have no expenses and only have their kid 4 days a week.

child support by the courts was 170 biweekly (basically I'd pay every other week towards daycare). when we moved in together and I got pregnant, we knew he'd demand money, which he did, and we agreed to 700 a month

I get that, but again, he may just want to pick his battles and this one isn't one he wants to deal with right now.

@kbabyondway, that's what I thought

the kids is with us right now

@aphrodite2014, @emily18234 there's is no settlement at all yet they made the agreement themselves she just asking for money just yo ask he take care of his kids the money is for her personal use n today is her bday she asking for her

No I wouldn't think that was cool either it's one thing to do for the kids but when he's still doing for her that's disrespectful to you

honestly... in my situation I have a fiance with 3 kids from a prior relationship.. if she called asking for money he would turn her away, but he pays 1k in child support, so there is no reason she shouldn't have money. however if the kids where not in her custody there's no way he would give her money.. if it's for the kids fine but if not hell no

honestly? that's between him and their mother. he may know it's just less of a headache to give her money if she needs it then her play some dumb games with the court or anything. my sons dad and I have my son 50-50 and we pay him child support to keep him out of our lives.

It's for her not the kids the kids is with us right not n she in directing saying shit like it's Sunday I guess I'm not getting no money and she bought him the new 2 when it came out n told him it was for the kids their twin boys are 4 they not old enough to make those choices n again the kids was with is when she came n gave it to him at the time she was only keeping them for one day n we had them 6 days a week these days she takes them during the week n we get them on the weekend her bday is today she's asking I don't get it

I don't see anything wrong with him giving the mother money for the kids bday. Now if the kids are not in the custody of the mother and it's her bday oh hell naw. That's not gonna happen