❗ So this bitch (my bf supposedly Best friend) is Texting him At this Hours? And i don't know the pasword😤 What should i…

I get what you're saying @autumnrae and I think it was sweet of you to put your input in 😘 I see your side.. but then I'm on the back side and don't want her to get heartbroken if in fact he is unfaithful. trust me.. I really hope you're right!

I know I'm not saying it's wrong to be concerned! I'm just trying to send some hope for the best out to her! Sometimes it is innocent! @brittnee

Okay well if your man doesn't care than that is not a concern/problem in your relationship. But she obviously is concerned so I think what her man should do is respect her if she doesn't want him talking to her. Her situation is different because she does have a problem with it and I don't blame her especially when he won't let her even know the password. @autumnrae If I didn't want my man associating with some chick best believe he would respect my concern and cut all ties instantly because he knows I would do the same thing for him.

I'm gonna throw out that I have a male best friend and some days we text at all hours!!! he may be telling the truth!!!!

You shouldn't have to go to the girl at all..! This is a conversation you should have with your man. This shouldn't be a hard decision for him and since you are past the point of no return with allowing your man to have a female bestfriend, you need to explain to him to tell her that he needs to focus 100% on you and the baby and he doesn't have the extra space I. his life right now for another female. I'm getting mad just thinking about your situation.

and the whole "best friends" thing.. is a bunch of bullshit!! I completely agree with you!! @lovelymommylumps He shouldn't have time for his girl best friend because he's suppose to be spending time with his prego gf/wife being excited about THEIR baby! If my man ever told me that their just best friends and I'm going to talk to her no matter what or whatever bullshit... I would give him a ultimatum real quick. me or her. it's really that simply. and I guarantee if it was switched around any guy would flip on a girls best boy--- friend too. once you're in a relationship the focus should be just you two!!! 😘

you already look kinda crazy for being all up in his phone.. that's probably why you don't know the password.. my fiancé's is my birthday so I can access it whenever I want.. but I don't because I trust him

@vegasgirl, then don't conflict her confront her ask her why she messaged him so late... that's not looking like an idiot.. if she's yoir friend confront her

Im agree with u @brittnee too I have pasword in my phone But just because has too

I don't wanna look idiot if i conflict her @aphrodite2014

Thank you @lovelymommylumps it's just so true though! If a couple is about to have a baby together the last thing that either should have to worry about is one not being faithful. & I agree with what you said about having a baby doesn't fix a relationship! If anything.. it's just going to make their relationship harder. Having a baby is ALOT of work! & if you have to worry about your man while you are prego or taking care of his baby!! Than you need to stand up for yourself and try to fix the problem and if he wants to be sneaky and not show you his phone.... there's the door.

Actually @brittnee is so right!!

Plus I'm not a believer in a guy and a girl being bestfriends

I'll have to agree with @brittnee 100%. You two should be past this phase

Me and my bf don't do the password thing. You two have some talking to do before you have a baby. Having a baby doesn't fix a relationship.

my boyfriend and i have the same conflict, and because he never put password on his phone...., got mad at him when he put one then i asked him why he put a password all sudden, he said for protection, because people keep on taking his phone at work, and he gave me his pasword...because he doesn't want to give me his password, i will change mine and never tell him..he get really anxious everytime i change my password... he doesn't like it.

In my opinion.. If you're having a baby or have a baby with a man you guys should be wayyy past this stage. I personally would wake him up as well and demand it. My fiance & I both have eachothers passwords they're actually the same lol & we are free to grab eachother's phone whenever we'd like. We don't hide anything from eachother! & that's how everyone's relationship should be! As for you already knowing if you ask he won't. That's just bad warning signs. The only reason why this bitch is texting him this late is because HE has made it to where she feels comfortable doing so! Stand up for yourself! You or any other woman does not deserve shit like this!

If he doesn't show you then he has something to hide. I would not put up with that. and if you already know he won't show you then wait until you can look at his password and check for yourself. I personally would be curious if I wasn't able to know my mans password.. I trust him and if I want to use his phone I can.

um. leave his phone alone.. go to her about it

If it ends up not being anything you could mess up your relationship. Just be careful girl. Whatever you decided be calm unless you find out he is cheating then kill em all. Lol jk jk @vegasgirl

Yeah im thinking about that too @mandysue

😂im planing that@elenasmommy

Don't wake him up. Next time he enters his password look over and see what it is. Later on enter it in and see what's going on!!!

I would hand him the phone and say open it now

Right?!! Is true if he dont have nothing to hide He better show me @kim5309

That should tell you a lot...there is nothing to hide if it's all already out there. Tell him how your feeling and you just want to see with your own eyes nothing is going on..and if he says no...you have things to think about ..as petty as that sounds, it happens.

Im trying to unlock this dam phone But thats true what yu say! I dont think he is going to show me Bcs this is not the first time@mrshutchison1

the fact you already know how shady he is gonna be says alot mama he needs to tell her she needs to respect he's sleeping next to you every night that's so out of line girl he should put her in her place if he can't show you what she said that says volumes about there relationship I PERSONALLY DON'T PLAY THAT BULLSHIT but what you put up with is what you end up with mama

Omg you sooooo Right!!!! Thats so true No matter what if they friends She dont have to text him no more & respet @rachael_lyann

Yeah ugh I dont think he is going to show me the text!!! Im sooo Mad!! & i know we are gonna argue Nd No talk for today @kim5309 @mrshutchison1 @roxy.xoxo

I can't stand when girls are this disrespectful!! If I knew a guy friend of mine had a pregnant girlfriend I would NEVER continue to talk to him! It doesn't matter what the intentions are its just common courtesy!

Wake him up now!!!

turn on the damn lights and waken his ass uo to give you password and then call that girl and ask her why she thinks she can text him that early in morning

make him show you

wake his ass up mama

wake him up and ask for it lol... I've done that and he just put it in.

Wake his ass up and ask why she's texting him this late