Judging by all of your posts this guy seems like he's way too immature to even be a father. You feel like he doesn't respect or show you love. He cannot even provide you a place to live on your own. He has you living with his judgmental mom who puts your mom down, a drunk father and now they are all smoking weed and cigarettes around you. You need to really think about this situation before bringing an innocent child into it.

I just don't know what to do I always said I wouldn't have a split up family like I had growing I didn't want that but it's hard when I'm emotional all the time and moody and once again he's in there smoking like it's not just doing it for fun anymore...@mommyro30 @hermommy

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man I've been smoking heavily for 5 years and it was no problem for me to quit cold turkey. no withdrawal, no addiction. I'm perfectly fine. this sounds like he doesn't respect you and he's acting like a prissy little bitch (no offense) for no reason. if someone doesn't want u smoking around them or in the house or a specific room, then u just don't . my fiance has no problem with that. but there are people who just don't care at all. I was once friends with this couple and I went to their house. they were about to smoke in the same room as their son AND MINE.. I asked them to go to another room since they invited me an my child over but they said no. so I left. and they smoked rich next to their son. some people are just ASSHOLES.

if u think u can't get addicted to weed.. ask someone who is a regular smoker to stop.. see if they just go about with no problems... they go through withdrawl just like any other person addicted to something. I've seen it with too many people who have stopped.. or tried but wound up not succeeding. . and sweetie, if he won't at least respect u enough not to do right there in front of u.. sounds like a tip of the ice berg problem. like maybe it's not just a "weed" issue as much as its a respect problem.

If he can't respect your concerns and requests now, what makes you think he will later? If it's this upsetting to you then you should reevaluate your relationship with him. You have a life to live and a baby to raise. Being stressed over something like this just simply isn't worth it. He sounds extremely immature and inconsiderate. You deserve to live your life happily and more importantly, your baby deserves to live happily. Don't let this become a problem that you can't get out of girl!

@savahannah,

ridiculous -.- I hate to say it but when your little one gets here if he doesn't stop.you'll have to make a choice CPS doesn't play even with weed.

It doesn't he's selfish and like I said he says he's 23 and will do whatever he wants @hermommy

he won't get addicted to weed, promise you. it's an herb it comes from the ground a drug is man made... he just needs to realize it's illegal and yalls child come a first. that should matter to him@savahannah

He won't it just kinda hurts me cuz I do believe you can be addicted to weed I mean it's a drug it's possible to be addicted to it and I feel like he is and that scares me cuz I dealt with that from my father @hermommy

I agree with you trust me but he sounds like he won't budge, @savahannah

Well I don't believe I should have to leave the room because they want to smoke that's not fair to me I didn't choose to smoke they should be respectful enough to go to a different room with me being pregnant @hermommy

you got it girl! @savahannah hopefully he realises it's wrong and he will take it else where mine won't do it in front of me and he's 23 also

Yea I know and I already told him that when we have our own place it won't be allowed in our home and neither will smoking I don't want that around the baby I don't want my baby's clothes to smell like weed and cigarettes that's nasty and give the baby breathing problems @hermommy

only thing i can say is you go in a different room you could always lie and say it will show up in your blood by second hand smoke which is a huge lie but you need to tell him it's not good to be around that for the baby's sake, nothing will happen to the baby it's just the fact CPS can get involved once the baby is here@savahannah

I've tried to ask him to go to a different room and he gets pissy sometimes and then other times he just does it right next to me @hermommy

ask him politely just go out side or in a different room I, my so smokes also, just let him know when the baby comes that's unacceptable @savahannah

It doesn't work he just says I'm 23 I'll do whatever I want @blessing2016

Talk to him ... Communication is key to a relationship ... Good luck