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I need advice guys. I started dating my boyfriend in November and not too long after we were together I got pregnant.…

I need advice guys. I started dating my boyfriend in November and not too long after we were together I got pregnant. Now all we do is fight and argue and I feel like we aren't meant to be together sometimes. Part of me wants to try to make it work. Not only for the baby but because I care about him too. But the other part wants to leave and see how things turn out. We fight constantly. He picks on me all the time. I'm barely showing and he calls me fat and says he's kidding but it really hurts my feelings. He does these things constantly. He also promised when I got pregnant he'd stop drinking and stuff because I can't. At the time, I thought it was really sweet. But now he breaks it all the time. He also keeps telling everyone that they are lucky because they don't have to grow up. He is forced to because of "this kid." What do I do guys???????

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djsmommy0516

KaneshaМама двоих (1 год, 46 лет)

he is not ready for a baby

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rainbowbaby2015

SummerВ ожидании первенца

also it takes guys a while to adjust to growing up and being mature. My boyfriend was the same way. I talked to him and explained my feeling and then he came around. give him the altimatium is anything. You'd be surprised at what guys would rather be a dad then a deadbeat.

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rainbowbaby2015

SummerВ ожидании первенца

my boyfriend and I were together and the first time we had sex I got pregnant I ended up having a miscarriage and we continued to date but we fought ALOT. I ended up getting pregnant again the end of July and we were still continuously fighting to the point we almost called it quits a couple times. We decided what we really wanted was for our daughter to be happy and raised with two loving parents. we put her needs before our own and now we are better then ever. we love each other unconditionally and wouldn't trade each other for the world. They always say when the going gets tuff never give up. We have been together 9 1/2 months and the last 3 months have been the best of our lives. If you truly love him and he truly loved you everything will work out. Being a single mom isn't easy but neither is being in a relationship full of hatred and discouragement.

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tatorbug32

Taylor

I would have to break it off with him. All that stress he is putting on you is not good for the baby or you. But the choice is totally up to you

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twowomenoneheart

The RollinsМама сына (7 лет)

Sounds like y'all were just a fling that ended up with a baby. A baby doesn't make him a man. Don't stay for the baby because you have to be happy as well. Weigh your options and follow ur heart. Sometimes the hardest things to do are the best decisions we make! Good luck Hun.

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izamarpink

JenniferМама сына-младенца, беременна (11 нед.)

I say you worry about you and the baby and let him be eventually he will have to grow up. Trust me.

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klanc919

Kristen LancasterМама дочки (1 год)

I'd call it quits and see how it goes. focus on you and your little one (:

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