he is not ready for a baby

also it takes guys a while to adjust to growing up and being mature. My boyfriend was the same way. I talked to him and explained my feeling and then he came around. give him the altimatium is anything. You'd be surprised at what guys would rather be a dad then a deadbeat.

my boyfriend and I were together and the first time we had sex I got pregnant I ended up having a miscarriage and we continued to date but we fought ALOT. I ended up getting pregnant again the end of July and we were still continuously fighting to the point we almost called it quits a couple times. We decided what we really wanted was for our daughter to be happy and raised with two loving parents. we put her needs before our own and now we are better then ever. we love each other unconditionally and wouldn't trade each other for the world. They always say when the going gets tuff never give up. We have been together 9 1/2 months and the last 3 months have been the best of our lives. If you truly love him and he truly loved you everything will work out. Being a single mom isn't easy but neither is being in a relationship full of hatred and discouragement.

I would have to break it off with him. All that stress he is putting on you is not good for the baby or you. But the choice is totally up to you

Sounds like y'all were just a fling that ended up with a baby. A baby doesn't make him a man. Don't stay for the baby because you have to be happy as well. Weigh your options and follow ur heart. Sometimes the hardest things to do are the best decisions we make! Good luck Hun.

I say you worry about you and the baby and let him be eventually he will have to grow up. Trust me.

I'd call it quits and see how it goes. focus on you and your little one (: