No calls? I understand.. No text? Yeah, I get that too. Your busy? Okay. Just remember that next time, I'll be busy too.…

I know the feeling. I tried "being busy" he didn't even notice

He probably won't either. It's nothing to him to go without talking to me all day. So, it's my turn. Maybe he'll realize somethings wrong, but maybe not. Idk, I'm tired of feeling like I don't matter. He gets pissed off because I get upset that I don't hear from him all day, or that I don't get text from him... Well damn. I'm sorry, I didn't know once you get married that means you don't talk to your SO unless your around one another but ok that's cool. 😒😒 @poppys

my hubby does that shit too. he says he will be back in an hour, five will pass and nary a message or text or call. he says I don't have net. well then borrow a fucking phone and message me.

yep. mines the same way. sometimes he tries to keep in touch but most of the time he just "forgets" how do you not realize you've been gone for hours and it's now completely dark outside and well past dinner time? you're hungry enough to eat before you come home but don't know how long you've been out? I wish I mattered that much. it drives me nuts and now all his friends think I'm a control freak.

@poppys same here.. He's out of town working, but he got off at 5 and I got two text from him since then but it was him fussing at me because I texted him 🙄🙄 so of course that's when he said he was busy, but yet he's already off? Wth could he be busy with? @lakilucid I know good and well he has service, and even if he didn't, he's at a hotel where they have wifi he could use... But no. Guess I'm just not that important. 😒

mine had a genuine excuse. not much WiFi here on the island lol but its about courtesy. I know what he's doing and stuff but don't tell me an hour and take five. its so disrespectful.

Same. It makes me feel like I don't matter at all. @lakilucid