I have a very personal question that I know is way tmi, but I've been having this problem a lot. Does anyone else have the problem of staying "lubricated" during sex? Since being pregnant seems like I dry out so quick even with foreplay first & everything :/ my hubby thinks it's him but it's really not! Even when I'm well beyond worked up seems like I can't keep lubricated. & it makes for a very uncomfortable & painful experience. We only get to do it maybe once a week if even that & id like for it to be nice, not excruciating. 😞
@mamaofangelbaby0610, exactly! I never had a problem at all. Which that should prove to them it's a pregnancy thing especially if it never happened before.
yea he gets so upset at himself and it just makes me want to cry because I'm really attracted to him its just not my fault because this never happened before I got pregnant.
@mamaofangelbaby0610, I know :( they make you feel like your letting them down because you can't make them feel better about something you can't help.
yes! I don't like it when he feels like that because its 100% not him.
@mamaofangelbaby0610, same here lol I'm pulling up Google & saying see! It's not you, my hootie is just not cooperating right now lol
@xtianaaax, not really, everything seems pretty normal I just stay really dry a lot. I'll have a little discharge during the day but not much at all. But no itchiness at all.
@mrsmord, I'm glad it's not just me :( but I'll definitely be looking for a good lube lol
@momma312, it's not his fault , it's normal a lot of people have this problem . Just gatta learn to use other stuff for help
It's normal. I bought a big tube of lubricant a week ago lok
no it doesn't and I hate when he tells me I'm not attracted to him anymore, but I'm definitely gonna look it up and prove to him that it's due to hormones! hopefully that will ease his concerns.
vaginal dryness is also a symptom of either a yeast infection of bacterial vaginits.. do you have any discharge or itchiness?
@mamaofangelbaby0610, exactly! Lol I actually think I want it more than I use to I just have that one problem lol. I'm always telling him how good he looks & doing the little kisses on the neck through the day. If I didn't want to I wouldn't even be looking at him! But guys have to feel like their the champ lol they have to have their egos stroked every so often. & this problem does not help.
he tells me it makes him feel like I'm no longer attracted to him but if I wasn't attracted to him I wouldn't be trying to have sex with him lol.
@littlemissrainesmommy, I will definitely look into getting that lol & @mamaofangelbaby0610 tell me about it :/ guys just don't understand.
Thanks Hun I don't think I can go through another minute like that :/ & like I said my hubby feels like he's not doing it right & I didn't know how to explain that. @mrsmord
god yes it happens to me too and my fiance also thinks its him too no matter how many times I tell him it's not.
another good lube is Just Like Me by pure romance.. it actually rewets itself with any but of moisture.. it works amazing and it's super safe for your lady bits! stuff is amazing. you can put a tiny bit on your finger and then when it dries, if you lick it it gets completely wet and slippery again!
Yeah pregnancy hormones tend to decrease self lubrication - I recommend KY jelly . It helps a lot
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