It's sad , when you've been Bestfriends with somebody for years , and then you let him take your virginity .. And you have sex with only him ... Then you miss a period , and you tell your """Bestfriend"""that has been there for you through everything that you might be pregnant , and he tells you to get a abortion .. He doesn't even ask you how you feel , or anything , just tells you to get a abortion and If You don't then you guys can't be Bestfriends anymore , because he says how "how can we be Bestfriends , have a kid , and mess with other people" so he hasn't came around you in almost two weeks now when your use to being around him every other day ! Like does anybody feel the hurt I feel right now ?? Like I have to do this pregnancy by myself .. This isn't how I pictured having my first child ... But I refuse to get a abortion because I was irresponsible and had unprotected sex ... So I'm going to take responsibility and do everything I can so me and my child have a great life . It's fucked up though that you lose the person who was suppose to be your bestfriend ! And that shit just breaks my heart and nobody understands .
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that just shows he only wanted one thing and he's a piece of shit honey. you and that little one deserve a man not a boy. chin up mama. my own hubby ran off when he found out we were expecting the second time after our first loss. he came back when he found out she was a girl. he was scared we would lose her thanks to incompetent hospital staff and he was 18. this time he said I need to put it up for adoption due to financial troubles that were unforseen. I stuck to my guns and now he's excited. but this guy is a right piece of work. if he didn't want kids he should have used a condom. take his ass for child support when its born.
Thank you guys , I just can't get a abortion and that's what he's forcing on me and I refuse ! It's not right , @octoberbaby2012 @javiersmom
So, sorry about your situation. It hurts when the people you trust most let you down. Keep the focus on you and baby, and press forward. He's not a friend and and not worthy of your time. Pray you have a healthy pregnancy.
I have a friend that was in the same situation. she decided to get an abortion & she regrets it so much to this day, she constantly cries over it. all I'm saying is, don't let anyone force you to do what you wanna do. it's your body. & like @octoberbaby2012 said, you won't regret having the baby. if you absolutely don't want baby, give him/her up for adoption, there are plenty of families looking, I wish you the best & if you ever need anything you can msg me :)
Sounds hard!! But keep up the good work! Trust me 3 years down the road you will be so happy u kept the baby! With looking into there eyes and seeing yourself. It's amazing! Am just so against abortion!! It's a baby your carrying inside of you! Be really happy cuz a person like me that have been trying to get prego for 2 years and can't, it's so hard! Tears are running down my eyes! Because thinking of some person(your bf) that dose care about life that lives inside of you as special as you do!! So don't give up!! think positive! And pray! Everything will be great!
Praying for u girl. I can only imagine the hurt in ur heart right now. Stick to ur gut and keep that baby and just live to be the best mom u can be. Any "man" of "BFF" that would do this to u is not even worth ur tears bc u deserve better than that in ur life. This is his loss of an amazing and beautiful creation of the 2 of u. I pray he will have a change of heart and be there for u. If u need anything please feel free to message me anytime :)