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Cristol
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hi! so I'm happily married and baby was planned and everything is going fantastic we are having a baby boy. . my biggest…

hi! so I'm happily married and baby was planned and everything is going fantastic we are having a baby boy. . my biggest worry is an odd one. i was raised by just my mom no dad in the picture for most of my life and when he was he was abusive. I know my husband will not be but I am more worried about me and how I will react to seeing that fatherly bond for the first time. and I'm nervous I'm going to "hog" the baby and be selfish just because I'm not sure what exactly a father does. . i know it sounds strange and its really hard to explain my feeling well that was my mini vent thanks for reading!

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disneybby

Cristol

thank you @jamielynn07

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jamielynn07

jamielynn07Мама подростка, беременна (24 нед.)

My dad was around but not a huge hands on dad.. didn't change diapers or get up for feedings when my siblings were born.. when I had my son I was a huge baby hog. I thought mama's do it best and it was my job. when my son would cry my boobs would throb and I NEEDED to comfort him myself.. anyway long story short it has passed and my son is 3 and my husband is a very hands on dad and does a great job! this time around I think I'll be more relaxed.

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disneybby

Cristol

good to hear all is good ! thank you @abeals04

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mommysbabies

Ashley Мама сына-младенца, беременна (3 нед.)

I kinda went through same thing my dad left when I was two and was in and out of my life till about fourth grade but my Mom was the abusive one and so far seeing my husband with our son makes me smile I don't know as he gets older how I will be he will be 2 weeks old saturday and so far so good for us

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.