hi! so I'm happily married and baby was planned and everything is going fantastic we are having a baby boy. . my biggest worry is an odd one. i was raised by just my mom no dad in the picture for most of my life and when he was he was abusive. I know my husband will not be but I am more worried about me and how I will react to seeing that fatherly bond for the first time. and I'm nervous I'm going to "hog" the baby and be selfish just because I'm not sure what exactly a father does. . i know it sounds strange and its really hard to explain my feeling well that was my mini vent thanks for reading!