I think it's a bit petty that my best friend sent me a 5 page fuck you text message, when I texted her and told her I loved her and I was so sorry for what happened with the baby not making it. I never got on her case about the fact the castor oil ordeal in fact I didn't even say anything about it. next thing I know I'm being told basically to fuck off, I'm getting blocked on fb, from her number, never speak to her again and that I'll be a shitty mother and that it's unfair her son passed but mine is a pos like his father and I. and that she hopes I die in the process of labor and that my son dies too.
okay then. some bestfriend you are. been best friends since singe digit age. and you're gonna wish all this shit on me when I lost all my babies bc of miscarriages and you have a beautiful 3 year old daughter. it ain't my fault you drank half a fucking bottle of castor oil to speed up your chances of going into labor. but whatever 👌✌ do what you do, ma. safe to say if she was to ever apologize id tell her to fuck off and stay far away from me as possible. onto the next one. I can find waaay way better friends with better attitudes than hers. that's for certain.
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Yes she does, and she also has to live with it alone, without the love of a good friend like you were. Terrible.
@babymay2016, pretty much. in the end she has to live with that.
If I were her (which I wouldn't be because I would never do that) I would be pretty pissed at myself too. More than pissed. I literally couldn't live with myself if I did something like that. But she definitely had NO reason to take that out on ANYONE but herself. Such a fuckin shame.
I totally understand. I wouldn't be able to accept it either. I don't take lightly to harsh words in a time of anger against me, let alone someone saying harsh things because they're mad at themselves. I have lost many a blood and friends over shit like this. You don't just forget something like that.
@babymay2016, to be honest. I wouldn't even want her apology. they'd be useless pointless words to me. she threw a friendship away.. not even friendship im sorry... I considered this girl my blood. best friends since the age of 5, over some real petty choice in words.
That's just terrible. This makes me so sad and I wish people wouldn't be so selfish... It is also awful what she said to you. I hope that she apologies to you eventually, and realizes she only said those things out of anger at herself... but I could understand how you wouldn't want to forgive her for that. I don't know how I could forgive someone for saying those things. Very sad about her baby though... selfish life changing decision that can never be taken back. 😔😔😔
Smh well don't sweat it because its not your fault.
@stephhhx3, yep. hope she has a good life. because she's no longer gonna be in mine.
@alleyelisabeth, exactly. she was right there. I mean. she just had to wait. but she was in sooo much pain and didn't give a damn about just using a birthing ball or trying to walk, or anything she should've done. went through 39 weeks of pregnancy fell 3 days short of her son becoming full term then 3 days later she would've been induced. why DO that to yourself?
@misskaecolletto, exactly in the end it's their choice and they will do what they want so it's all on them.
@misskaecolletto, 39 Weeks Omg she could of waited!!!!!!!! Its her fault! She could of got on a birthing ball, had sex or something.
@stephhhx3, yeah. I won't knock peoplr for their decisions. but that's not my cup of tea. my son will come out when he's ready. only way I'm letting him out that's not natural is being induced.
Honestly this is why I'm reluctant about letting anyone in my life. what kind of person says they hope you and your baby die? that's sooooo messed up.
@alleyelisabeth, she had just hit 39 weeks pregnant like 3 days ago. all she had to do was wait 6 more days so she could get induced. but she was so impatient. she started feeling really sick so she went to Labor and delivery and they were monitoring her and baby and they saw his heart rate was dropping as well as hers so they prepped her for a c section, by the time they got baby out he wasn't breathing and he wasn't crying. they tried air bagging and and CPR on him and nothing. so they called it.
@misskaecolletto, it's funny cuz I was just taking about castor oil on here yesterday with @babymay2016 and we literally had people arguing with us saying it was fine. I'm 100% with you. My daughter will come out when she's ready and if she takes too long then I have a doctor for that reason. It just sucks your losing a friend over that :(
@stephhhx3, way I look at it, she just lost the last person who ever gave a damn about her. Imma let her be petty wop. but in the end. I'm doing what it takes to keep my son safe while he's still in me for the next 9 weeks. and I intend on not doing anything dumb like castor oil. I'm so against it. and when she made the decision about doing it, all I said was "I can't tell you what to do. but please be very careful with that stuff". never called her out her name. never flipped on her. nothing.
@alleyelisabeth, the shit people will do googling "ways to induce labor at home" like... I couldn't do that. even if a doctor was to recommend just a tablespoon. I couldn't do it. but her DUMBASS drinks half a bottle and then blames me? I'm like bitch.. you're grown, I can't hold your hand from 11 hours away and tell you what to do. she did it to herself and her son.
Wow! That is insane! Instead of flipping on you she should promote how unsafe castor oil is. That's why people shouldn't try to self induce :( it's really sad really. She's emotion obv and has a problem with you since your baby is good and hers didn't make it but that doesn't have anything do to with you! Smh.
yes girl i agree! my SOs brother told me he would kill me and my daughter it's something you can't forget or forgive I understand she's hurt but 1 she did it to her self and 2 you didn't do anything wrong to deserve that :/ I'm sorry she did that to you@misskaecolletto
she did. and she should really know not to step to me like that. because I don't play that crap at all. but I kept it civil and just said "okay " and left it at that. it's very fucked up. and honestly I've done nothing but support her as much as I can, since we live in separate states. I can't with that bullshit. so uncalled for. and that's something I could never forgive or forget. my son is a miracle for sure and I'm very lucky to even have gotten pregnant. for anyone to wish that on my child, automatically put out of my life for sure! @brinleysmommy
excise my language that mad me mad for you:/ your too sweet for that
@misskaecolletto, who told her castor oil was safe in the first place?? she should have done her research far more deeply than to come and blame you for it .. it's pretty sad but it wasn't your fault
Awh man thats so messed up. You did not deserve that at all!! Praying for you @misskaecolletto
what the fuck? she's a bitch.... she did it to her self?! that was nice of you to tell her you were sorry and not bring up the fact she did it but she crossed a very very thin line saying that to you@misskaecolletto
excuse me for commenting late but I couldn't help to speak on the fuckery I just read...first of all, who wishes that on ANYONE or ANY child!! I've been thru the miscarriage ordeal twice and I swear I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy let alone someone who I considered my friend! I'm so sorry she said all of that to you and you have the right to be pissed and hurt. That was so damn insensitive! I know she is hurting but to say that! it's too much @misskaecolletto