hey mommies. I have a question. I told my man I was pregnant again after we lost our baby over a month ago. he wants to leave me and says abortion or him. WTF do you do?
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Move on with life cry when it hurts but move on and be the best mother ever!!!!!!
My bf gave me a similar ultimatum, I've had one abortion already due to medical issues... and I swore on everything I'd never ever do it again , my bf told me that It wasn't the right time, and we needed to work on our relationship before we brought a child into the world. As much as I agreed, I couldn't bring myself to have an abortion. I knew in my heart that this baby would be well taken care of with or without him. So needless to say he is my EX bf now. Do what you feel in your heart. Never let a man or ANYONE in that matter make you feel as though you need to choose them over why you feel strongly about !!
with him just saying for you to choose him or your child shouldn't even have to be a thought that just shows what kind of a person he is. And Your child will be with you forever yes they grow up and live their own life but they will always be your baby . Mainly the choice is up to you
Do you want the baby? If you do then there's your answer.
Personally, if it were me in your situation I would talk to my husband and see why he is feeling that way. But ultimately, if it wasn't something he was going to change his mind on, I would choose my child over him. The fact that he could even ask that of me would be enough of a reason for me to pick my child. Not only that, I don't believe in abortion. That's my own personal belief and to me the fact that he could ask me to get rid of a human life that depends on me would be enough for me to leave. I couldn't imagine getting rid of my child. As much as I love my husband, I would never ask that of him, and if he could ask that of me that would be it for me. But that's just me. Ultimately, you do have to decide what's best for you. He is your boyfriend, and if he could ask that of you, who is to say he will always be there for you and you won't regret it? That's a lot for you to think about and nobody can make that choice for you. In the end, you have to ask yourself which one you can live with. The loss of your boyfriend, or the loss of another child at your hands. It's up to you on what's best. If you ever need to talk, or just someone to listen feel free to message me. I hope everything works out.
a child will be your child forever. a significant other will not always be there.. that is why people get divorced
everyone is saying lose the man. but the real thing you should be thinking about is if you want the child or him. it is ultimately up to you. I personally will always choose my husband first. children will grow up and leave you. a significant other is always going to be there. talk to him about why he thinks you should get an abortion. he could just be scared. have a heart to heart about it. you do what feels best for you. not what others want you to do. leave him and keep the baby. stay and get an abortion or work it out and keep both. no one can tell you what to do.
I would keep the baby because after having a miscarriage a month it is a beautiful blessing that God is giving you two and if he doesn't see it then leave him keep your blessing and put his ass on child support after the baby is born the baby has part of his DNA he don't like he can leave
Keep the baby. You're kid will always be your kid, boyfriends come and go. I'm sure he'll come around eventually.
definitely lose the bf. you don't want to be with somebody that would make you choose like that and be so unsupportive. definitely not worth it
Your baby will always be your child. He probably won't always be your boyfriend. Id lose with without a second thought.
He may change his mind and not mean it.
Keep the baby lose the idiot. He is beyond unreasonable if he think you should get an abortion for a baby he helped make.
Why would you want to abort a baby when you just lost one? tell him to stop being selfish and kick him to the curb.. baby comes first in my eyea
Keep the baby, get rid of the boy. Obviously he's not worth it and not someone you want in your life.
id tell him bye. he should know what it takes to make a baby. that's a life
I agree with @neik84 !!!!!