whats your thoughts ladies

I think we shouldn't judge others for their decisions cause that's allll on them & EVERYBODY has a different story

@taymarie08,

@gcpaschal, i agree

I don't care about being misunderstood lol. I don't say things for everyone to understand. If you get it you get it, if not it's not for you and that's OK. I said EXACTLY what I meant the way I meant to say it. Like I said I'm speaking on a level that I will never expect most people to get. It's just a miss for most lol. Take what you want from whatever I say. Agree or disagree. It never makes a difference. It's only a simple discussion. I naturally make it more complex for some I guess lol.

It's nasty to me. If my husband and I split up while I was pregnant, I'd be single for awhile. My focus would solely be on my child.

@jesjeslovesyou

I understand what you're saying, it's not that I dont. But also, the way you stated it saying "whatever fluids and spirits that are swapped goes into my child too" that makes it look like you think another man's DNA or sperm can somehow get through your placenta and into your child. If you don't want to be misunderstood you should word your comments differently.

@jesjeslovesyou, i agree with u

@Taymarie08, I'm speaking on a level of consciousness that I don't expect any of y'all to understand lol.. Lord.. Lol.. Lemme stop confusing y'all.

@jesjeslovesyou a baby can't get someone else's DNA when they're in the womb.. I mean if you don't want to have sex with another man while pregnant with someone else's child, that's fine. but a child can not get someone else's DNA, it's impossible. lol

It's so sad how casual sex is now n days, aha. But heyyy. When you walk and treat yourself like a queen these things become more serious than "just sex". Whatever comes inside of me is directly exposed to my child. The simplicity and logic in that statement is so blatant.. Lol. Guess it wouldn't be to some.

@perhsice, lol yeah you should be off this if you don't understand what I'm saying lmao.. definitely making the right move there😂😂

@jesjeslovesyou, did you just say the fluids from sex go to the baby? 😂😂😂 im off this ✌

im not carrying another mans child then @perhsice

but youll sex him after? @happymommyof2 whats the difference

I think it's disgusting to have another man inside of you while you're pregnant with another mans child. I just cant😩. I don't even want another man looking at me if he isn't K, lol. I have that mans child.. Even if we weren't together whatever fluids and spirits that are swapped goes into my child too. I'm MAKING this baby.. My child should only be exposed to our DNA, not a third fourth or fifth.. But I'm naturally not the type of woman that gives myself away anyway. My body is too sacred. If me and K broke up and I met someone else I'd definitely expect him to wait to touch me until after I have the baby, even longer. I plan on breastfeeding for a year. That guy would be SOL lol. Only fluids exposed to my youngin is that of me and the child's father.

So Wat if the girl cheated on her boyfriend and got pregnant than ended up gettin back with her boyfriend and he decides to pick up the role of being that baby's father bcuz the other dude isn't tryin to does that make her nasty .? 🤔 orrrrr Wat if she was already pregnant but Ddnt know it and got with a new dude and they already had sex than down the line she found out she was pregnant do they jst stop having sex bcuz it's not his baby or Wat 🤔🤔

@perhsice, thats your opinion but me personally wouldnt let another man sex me while carrying my unborn child

I say no thanks but to each it's own

whats so disgusting about it? if a man left and a woman fell inlove and that man has been her support system the whole time doing everything for her and wants to be in her and the childs life how is that disgusting? THATS BEAUTIFUL to me

i will feel disgusted & will wait just like @katierouleau21 & @happymommyof2 @maciecakes said.

I agree with @brinleysmommy

@happymommyof2, you asked for opinions mine is if they're not together and the man is going to be the father figure who's to say she's wrong. I wouldnt do it but i also don't plan on my relationship ending.

@maciecakes, i barley wanna have sex with the father of my child let alone someone whos not

@katierouleau21, right i would feel like a nasty whore

I am personally not comfortable with the idea. My cousin and his former girlfriend broke up while she was pregnant with his daughter and it disgusted him so much and really hurt him that She was sleeping with another guy while his daughter was inside her. If me and my husband split I think I'd wait til after I had the baby just out of respect for him.

@brinleysmommy, i dont think that matter thats nasty to have sex with someone other than the father

I jus couldn't do it. I'd feel so dirty jus my opinion tho.

depends if they are together or not