so my MIL bought a crib without my knowledge. she just sends a text saying I bought you a crib:)
don't get me wrong I'm grateful but she just saw i bought a cradle and should have asked me. she hasn't told me any details about the crib or where she got it from. I'm just annoyed with her. ugh . would you be mad?
I would be irritated. That's very kind of her to do that for you, but she should've consulted with you first. A baby is a big deal to me and I want to pick out everything. Lol I want the nursery decorated with the things I want to use. It's a sweet gesture though!
I'm always grateful when anyone gets something for my kids wouldn't matter who it was or what they got.
hell no my mother in law doesn't do hardly shit for us nor my father in law id b greatful if they would treat their grandchildren equal just because my husbands step brother is a POS they treat his daughter so much better and always expect my family to do for us..... infact this is our second and my MIL threw a fit that my mom wasnt doing a baby shower for me because our first is 5 and a girl and we are expecting a boy now i was like wtf why dont u throw it if ur that damn upset
You have every right to be irritated. Just because it's free doesn't mean you're obligated to be happy about it. I would be super annoyed. We were happy when people gave us stuff, but we told everyone that the crib was ours to get. There's just something really exciting about picking out the bed that your baby will sleep in. Also, we had specifications on colors & styles and we wanted it to be the 4 in 1. Cribs are a big deal. She should have let you be a part of that.