Sooo my mother in law and her son want to move in with us... Remember, I have a 2 year old and a baby on the way in a 3…

Have you talked to you boyfriend and let him know how you feel?

tell him...don't put yourself in a situation that will only make you vunerable

Hell no! Your house your family, you should have a say!

it gets hard I know I'm taking care of my mom and brother the stress will build up which is not good on you or your baby hopefully he can understand you to are very important and u shouldn't have to take on more responsibilities considering it will start getting packed in the house as well good luck

I haven't confronted him about it because it seems he's already made the decision without acknowledging my feelings about it, his previous wife was very controlling and ruined his relationship with his mother, he's only recently started patching things up with her.

@mamasnooki,

@babylylasmommy, yeah that's exactly how I feel, but at the same time he makes it feel like it's not my place to decide and that she'll be "helpful" when in reality she barely gets out of bed, she doesn't clean, her house is always a mess, she's a thief and she gives her perscription pain pills to her kids. She's a sweet woman but I don't want her around my baby.

@littlelentil, you should just try and sit him down and let him know how you feel. He isn't the only one living there so he should take how you feel in to consideration. Is his brother working? If they move in they will need to help out some way.

It sounds like you're going to regret it the minute you let her move in. Will hubby be real mad if you say no? Can she go to another relatives house?

His brother is 17, he'll be going to school here, they live in newyork and we live in Florida, the mother can't work or even get out of bed. It would just be a burden and more work for me but I really don't wanna come off to my boyfriend as a hateful lazy bitch. @mamasnooki I know they need help but I don't know if I'm capable of dealing with that right now.

@littlelentil, ya no you're gonna be exhasted n you don't need extra stress you should speak up if your boyfriend loves you he will understand he should put you and the kids first..

@littlelentil, that's not being hateful or lazy. That's you just putting and making sure your kids and household is good first.

And being pregnant you shouldn't have to be put through things that's going to stress you out.

please don't. you are not a jerk for feeling this way either.

Thanks ladies, honestly I feel like I come second sometimes and it's nice to know my feelings are justified. @mamasnooki @babylylasmommy @tearbearm072016

The only person you come second to is your baby ! Remember that hun ! 💖