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Emilly Smith
Emilly Smith
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really upsets me that I waited all this time, a total of 2 years to see a baby on ultrasound and I did, my experience…

really upsets me that I waited all this time, a total of 2 years to see a baby on ultrasound and I did, my experience really sucked, she made me really uncomfortable... you think you'd get more time to just look at your baby... I find it cruel. a whole 48 seconds with no moving or jumping around like EVERYONE says.. I heard the heartbeat for 4 seconds n she stopped it.. only took 2 pictures.. mislabeled my weeks, so everyone thinks I'm a liar now.. why do I always get the shitty end of the stick? why isn't my pregnancy as important as others? I'm always below everyone for everything!

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

I went out in Adrian, to Dr baers office right by bixby the hospital. @adutton

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adutton

Ashley

where do you go? I live super close to you

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wannaboyplz

AshleyМама троих детей

complain to your doctor, they may be able to get you another one

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

I will certainly look into it!! thank you @mczinzo

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mczinzo

MariahМама сына-младенца

do you have a hope center where you are? you might be able to go in and see if they will give you an ultrasound since your concerned.

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

@mczinzo I didn't think so either :(

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mczinzo

MariahМама сына-младенца

Wow that's not right

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

oh and told me heartbeat was 168.

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

mine was literally 3 minutes 😐 she had it down for 11w then she "measured" and said your 12w and 1 day. then she turned on the sound heard crazy things I've never heard then she shut it off and highlighted a little length of the heartbeat n said i was due august 1st then I was done.

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0816mommy

AngelicaМама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

was that your first visit, period? my first visit last Monday with my doctor she did a little ultrasound just to see if I was measuring with my LMP but she still showed me it was about 10 minutes. I get a real one next week

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

this is my first so I literally had no idea but I figured I wouldn't be sad after the fact! I had like no closure.. I'm not gonna see him for a while. make sure he's okay!!! ahh😡

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

I know! @0816mommy she scrolled from his head to whatever she thought was feet twice. I never seen my Dr. maybe a nurse? idk what do I say! I'm so mad

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0816mommy

AngelicaМама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I don't think the doctor is going to be happy either with no results

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0816mommy

AngelicaМама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

she couldn't have gotten everything the doctor needed to see. it's stuff she's supposed to measure and everything.

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

I've just waited so long both times. I'm not at ease with seeing him for a second without movement :( he was just laying there. idk I'm too scared.

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

12 @spicelives it wasn't an emergency. it was my first. and miscarrying you'd think they would care a teeny bit more this time around

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spicelives

Sara GlideМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

I was going to say emergency ultrasounds can be shorter and you often don't see the baby. How many weeks are you?

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

thanks ladies.

I'm sure I only get 2 ultrasounds too 😢 back to crying

I feel like this all is a big waste of time I always get shit on

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somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝В ожидании первенца

That's crazy I'm sorry you had to experience that your first time

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missing77user

missing77userВ ожидании первенца

I wouldn't even have left without seeing somebody first and let them know what she did so that she can do it PROPERLY especially when we don't even get that many ultrasounds. I only got 2 and if my tech did that it would of definitely been a problem

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

agreed @sexxymama83

I couldn't imagine jippin someone out on seeing their baby !!! cruel..

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

@mazeyy09 I try to be nice.. I can't believe they did that to me. . I had no idea.. I knew I was distraught for a reason..

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sexxymama83

Mrs.RJМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Yea I would complain to your doctor and see if you can do another one. But you also need to know how many your insurance will pay for. That sucks and was very mean of her to do. I can't stand people that don't like their job. Find another one then......

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somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝В ожидании первенца

at the shortest it should be 30 mins once your baby noticed the ultrasound you would have saw movement she's lazy I would have went off on her but that's just me lol

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

you guys really think so. I'm so saddened by today :( @qmama

and yes @mypregnancy_journey from unbuttoning to pulling my pants back up from 2:17-2:20 :/ the tech girl was younger than me.. it was so ridiculous

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qmama

TiffanyМама троих детей

I would call and try to make a new appointment and explain why. that's ridiculous

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missing77user

missing77userВ ожидании первенца

that's really odd she only took 3 mins. she has to look at the fluids and everything and only hearing the heartbeat for a couple of seconds is ridiculous as well!

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natebugsmomma2016

Emilly SmithВ ожидании первенца

@mypregnancy_journey literally took 3 minutes... :'(

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missing77user

missing77userВ ожидании первенца

I would of made a complaint because ultrasounds should be at least an hour

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