So I have a question ladies. My mother in law wants to throw our baby shower, she asked for a guest list and now I'm basically having to pick and choose who is more important to invite out of my friends because I invited too many for her to accommodate for. The guests will mostly be my husbands family and his work friends. My question is, do you think its wrong to have 2 baby showers, that way I can have my own friends at the 2nd one? It really annoys me that I dont have a say so in her planning. Let me know ladies! :)