So, I'm having some problems with my future sister in law.. she was not excited about the engagement until I asked her to be a bridesmaid, she picks up my kids from daycare on nights I work late ( cuz she's being nice?), she is not okay with us wanting to have another baby right now. I try so hard to get her to like me but it seems like nothing works. any ideas on how to not have a blow up?
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I just worry cuz she's around my kids alot and if she doesn't like me... I try to protect my girls from anyone who doesn't like me. I don't want them getting hurt.
Just because she's your future sister in law doesn't mean you need to be trying to get her to like you. Just be you and don't put so much effort into being a people pleaser just for her approval. Your fiance loves you, that honestly is all that matters.
Okay me and my fiance got together in 2014 and his sister's still hate me. I can't stand them either tho. but I don't let it get to me, It doesn't change my mind on things and how I feel. It's you and you fiancee choice not hers, she will just have to get over it. Also like i tell my fiance sister's , they should be more concerned about his happiness than there here towards me.