Single ftm to be....romantic movies are not the way to go. Just reminds me my baby will not have a dad in its life. My dad and I have always been close and it kills me that my baby's dad doesn't want to be there. How can a man just choose to ignore his child....😢😭😔
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I hear you @newbee2016...everything hit the fan and fell apart around New Years for me (us) and I'm asking the same question: how can someone actually flat out choose to do wrong by their family? But I'm trusting in God. For the record, if it makes you feel any better, we "tried" for the first 32 weeks before he gave up but it was never a real effort. As much as it hurts, I feel relieved that now I can focus on loving my children and stop trying to squeeze love out of a man who doesn't know how to give it. Motherhood is amazing and my future is bright! Yours too!
it's his lost. my father was around, but I told my son father that my son will know his father bc I don't want him to feel how I feel without my dad
@lilfree16, I agree...thank you again I grow a little stronger every day. @leslie863 I have not spoken to him in nearly 3 weeks and He has denied it a his since I told him I was pregnant, I never even tried to pressure him into being around he just simply said it wasn't his. I am moving back to where my family is when the baby is born so I am not expecting much after that.
Sorry to hear about your situation @newbee2016 but don't stress yourself about it cuz your bd probably never seen a man treat/care for his own motherl. on the other hand it's his lost and most of the time they can't handle the pressure we put them through while we prego so just relax he'll start to come around when you start not to pay him any mind TRUST ME & TRY IT
men do not abandon their children! hes a coward and you are strong ! you got this
im sorry sweetie... =/ his loss on a perfecr angel to come
My husband just asked if they have a app for first time dads or just an app for dads to discuss parenting
My dad is tryin to find a way to keep my SO off the birth certificate and have someone come in and talk to me about adoption... Those messages are between my dad and aunt
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
.....my bfs dad just tried hitting on me..👎😫😭
I have no friends! ?
I have no actual proper friends! I never go on nights out cos I don't have friends to go with! It doesn't usually bother me but it's starting too! My oh is busy helping his friend move today and then tonight he's out at the boxing with his mates and out after! Rhys is at his dads so it's just me and Isabella! ??
@najahlove, I am sorry to hear that. I have relief on my side as well. I get to be the decision maker and don't have to ask his opinion. Just sad my baby won't know the love of a father, but she/he will be loved by plenty others so hopefully it won't be as bad. Being a mom has been my dream since I was a little girl....and in 18ish weeks I get to live that. I am grateful for all the support on here and thank you. These hormones be making me have pity parties against my will. lol