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Sam
Sam
Мама подростка, беременна (35 нед.)

Single ftm to be....romantic movies are not the way to go. Just reminds me my baby will not have a dad in its life. My…

Single ftm to be....romantic movies are not the way to go. Just reminds me my baby will not have a dad in its life. My dad and I have always been close and it kills me that my baby's dad doesn't want to be there. How can a man just choose to ignore his child....😢😭😔

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lilfree16

Lily Freeman

В ожидании первенца

im sorry sweetie... =/ his loss on a perfecr angel to come

newbee2016

Sam

Мама подростка, беременна (35 нед.)

@lilfree16, Thank you.

lilfree16

Lily Freeman

В ожидании первенца

men do not abandon their children! hes a coward and you are strong ! you got this

leslie863

Jessica

Мама четверых детей

Sorry to hear about your situation @newbee2016 but don't stress yourself about it cuz your bd probably never seen a man treat/care for his own motherl. on the other hand it's his lost and most of the time they can't handle the pressure we put them through while we prego so just relax he'll start to come around when you start not to pay him any mind TRUST ME & TRY IT

newbee2016

Sam

Мама подростка, беременна (35 нед.)

@lilfree16, I agree...thank you again I grow a little stronger every day. @leslie863 I have not spoken to him in nearly 3 weeks and He has denied it a his since I told him I was pregnant, I never even tried to pressure him into being around he just simply said it wasn't his. I am moving back to where my family is when the baby is born so I am not expecting much after that.

s4r4h01

Sarah

Мама сына-младенца

it's his lost. my father was around, but I told my son father that my son will know his father bc I don't want him to feel how I feel without my dad

najahlove

Najah

Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (39 нед.)

I hear you @newbee2016...everything hit the fan and fell apart around New Years for me (us) and I'm asking the same question: how can someone actually flat out choose to do wrong by their family? But I'm trusting in God. For the record, if it makes you feel any better, we "tried" for the first 32 weeks before he gave up but it was never a real effort. As much as it hurts, I feel relieved that now I can focus on loving my children and stop trying to squeeze love out of a man who doesn't know how to give it. Motherhood is amazing and my future is bright! Yours too!

newbee2016

Sam

Мама подростка, беременна (35 нед.)

@najahlove, I am sorry to hear that. I have relief on my side as well. I get to be the decision maker and don't have to ask his opinion. Just sad my baby won't know the love of a father, but she/he will be loved by plenty others so hopefully it won't be as bad. Being a mom has been my dream since I was a little girl....and in 18ish weeks I get to live that. I am grateful for all the support on here and thank you. These hormones be making me have pity parties against my will. lol

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?