Single ftm to be....romantic movies are not the way to go. Just reminds me my baby will not have a dad in its life. My dad and I have always been close and it kills me that my baby's dad doesn't want to be there. How can a man just choose to ignore his child....😢😭😔
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I hear you @newbee2016...everything hit the fan and fell apart around New Years for me (us) and I'm asking the same question: how can someone actually flat out choose to do wrong by their family? But I'm trusting in God. For the record, if it makes you feel any better, we "tried" for the first 32 weeks before he gave up but it was never a real effort. As much as it hurts, I feel relieved that now I can focus on loving my children and stop trying to squeeze love out of a man who doesn't know how to give it. Motherhood is amazing and my future is bright! Yours too!
it's his lost. my father was around, but I told my son father that my son will know his father bc I don't want him to feel how I feel without my dad
@lilfree16, I agree...thank you again I grow a little stronger every day. @leslie863 I have not spoken to him in nearly 3 weeks and He has denied it a his since I told him I was pregnant, I never even tried to pressure him into being around he just simply said it wasn't his. I am moving back to where my family is when the baby is born so I am not expecting much after that.
Sorry to hear about your situation @newbee2016 but don't stress yourself about it cuz your bd probably never seen a man treat/care for his own motherl. on the other hand it's his lost and most of the time they can't handle the pressure we put them through while we prego so just relax he'll start to come around when you start not to pay him any mind TRUST ME & TRY IT
men do not abandon their children! hes a coward and you are strong ! you got this
im sorry sweetie... =/ his loss on a perfecr angel to come
@najahlove, I am sorry to hear that. I have relief on my side as well. I get to be the decision maker and don't have to ask his opinion. Just sad my baby won't know the love of a father, but she/he will be loved by plenty others so hopefully it won't be as bad. Being a mom has been my dream since I was a little girl....and in 18ish weeks I get to live that. I am grateful for all the support on here and thank you. These hormones be making me have pity parties against my will. lol