@scc2413, that happened to me with the baby sitter we had her going to. she up and quit on us for no reason because I told her not to be my child's teddy bear. she had her napping on the couch which is fine but was sitting next to her constantly. So I told her to stop. she got offended. contacted him and told him I called her a teddy bear. not that I was calling her fat. then im like whatever I'll find a daycare then for her to go to. next day she barely apologizes and says she wants my daughter to stay. Haha no crazy lady. then we go for a walk through if a daycare and I'm like ok where's the paper I'll sign. there we are in the parking lot he's complaining no I don't want her to go here it's cheaper at the baby sitter. blamed me for the whole thing. I was balling. didn't even feel comfortable stepping into her house anymore when I saw her as family. after about 45 minutes it finally clicked in his little head of his.

Guys just don't understand! After 2 years, I've finally made my boyfriend realize his grandma isn't a nice person at all and literally every time something happens to us he gets so pissed and I'm like well maybe if you'd listen to me the first time and talk to her before I say something she won't like and don't let her see our son when he's here then we won't have problems. He use to stick up for her for the longest time but luckily she did something that was the absolute last draw for him and he flipped on her. That's the only time I've ever really got through to him but only because I said something multiple times.

@scc2413, yeah and it continues. we put our daughter to bed and I had our work clothes in the dryer so I decided to takr shower. I hear the dryer go off as im in there. I expect him to be folding...its still in the dryer and hes just sitting there watching tv. apparently he said im not communicating with him that he thought his mom was gonna do it tomorrow when she was gonna do some more laundry since she offered to help around the house...idiot its our work clothes. and im not gonna leave clean clothes to be folded when theres ton more that just need to be washed.

Dear lord! My boyfriend if the same exact way. He literally never replies to my messages or he does for a while then I just get nothing the rest of the night. My boyfriend has this thing where he apparently can't listen and do something so I'll ask him to do something while he's like on facebook and he doesn't hear me. Then I get mad and do it myself.

@scc2413, exactly! tell him he needs to grab the rest of the groceries from the store. he stuff reminds me when we get him. 10:30pm he didn't leave sirens the next hour on his phone on Facebook. says he'll do it after he drops off our daughter...doesn't bother to tell me at all that day that he didn't go at all. and doesn't answer any of my texts from that day. I know it's not horrible but he's just on my damn nerves when he won't even listen half the time. expects me to do everything and I'm due any day now

Girl! I know what you mean, my we've gotten into a few arguments because he doesn't know how to communicate in any form.