Maybe y'all can help me....my baby father and I before we got pregnant was good friends and he mentioned to me that he was on/off with his girl back in Cali. So we contuined to mess around and he had me "thinking" we was in a relationship. So once I got pregnant, things changed. He's throwing this girl in my face and saying that she's the only girl he will ever love but I feel like it's not fair to me or my baby because he doesn't even wanna be with me or even try us to see where things will go. So as a woman I have backed up, and just been a "friend" to him when I want some so much more. Was I wrong to continue this fling or was i right?
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Thank you on both! It's very cool that you due before me. @mommytobe0516
Focus on your baby. You don't want a little boy u want a man. You deserve better. Goodluck and Congrats on baby girl Im due May 1 with a boy off subject but thought it was cool ur due a day after me.
No problem girly 😊. I'm kinda going through the same thing so I feel you on an emotional level. I don't want girls feeling the way I did and sometimes do. @kylamommy2016
Thank you. That made me feel 100% better. I really appreciate it. @thislovelything
Then leave him alone. Focus on you and that baby. Better yourself for yourself. If he wants to be involved let him if not, don't force him. You'd be wasting your own time and energy on something pointless. Find a support system in someone who actually wants to help you and that child. Fuck him. You'll be ok I promise. 😙😙😙 @kylamommy2016
I always feel like it's my fault. Especially now that a baby is gonna be involved. I mean we are good friends but I wanna be more and he's all like you know the situation we wasn't supposed to happen. And I'm like but we did tho. We can't change what's gonna be here in 3 months. At least you could try to be in a relationship with me. But he's stuck on the girl from back home. At times I feel sad but it's nothing I can do @thislovelything
not at all. He led you on. You thought he liked you so you liked him more. It's his fault not yours boo.
Thank you :) that means a lot. I think I know what I'm gonna do.
make you and that baby happy. go for it. if he's not making your family a priority then you can't wait and hurt for nothing. let him go and move on. your world doesn't need to revolve around him especially when clearly he don't care..
I don't think it was wrong at all. I feel like I was just going with what I thought was going on. He's in the picture and everything but he just don't want to be with me. He's stuck on the girl. And it sucks that he brings her up a lot. And thank you :) @mommi321
the question is do you think it was wrong or right...to me it seems he don't wnt to be a daddy..maybe just enjoys the single life..but I am not therw i dont know its not my place to judge how ever i m sure if he is out of the picture you will still be a great mom and are strong enough to do it with out him...regardless of what happens i wish you the best.
You welcome:)