I just cried my eyes out to my husband. I feel stupid because I cried as if someone I love just died but it's over me…
I just cried my eyes out to my husband. I feel stupid because I cried as if someone I love just died but it's over me feeling disgusting and huge. Anyone else's emotions get the best of them? I haven't had this issue til now actually and I'm 27 weeks. I just feel like I'm gross looking today and can't help but let comments people have made over the last few weeks get the best of me such as: "you must be having a boy cause your "not glowing and have acne" or when are you due- and I say April?! And they reply with "Really two?" Then I always say no just one and they say "are you sure?!" All surprised. Ugh people are just inconsiderate and it's apparently taken its toll on me emotionally and definitely torn my self confidence. 😔
Emily·
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Yes. I was working somewhere where this guy would constantly harass me calling me fat and telling me every day I eat too much. some days I could ignore it. others I came home and cried. one time, early december, I was completely inconsolable. he just crawled in bed with me hugging me and rubbing my back, not saying anything until I was able to calm down enough to talk. all he said was "do you want to open a Christmas present early?" and it was a new showerhead. it seems silly, but meant the world
Lisa·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)
Aw that's so sweet. Yea I have a coworker who comments on how "gross I am and have acne so it must be a boy because in her culture that's what it means" and so on. Plus I work in an ER and patients and family members make comments about my size! Wth. Why would anyone ever think that's okay?! My husband feels awful for me but there is only so much he can do. I feel bad that I cried so hard to him😔😔
missing401user·
Oh my lord.... Put the shit on such stupid speakers. I'm not even pretty and I don't care X) Really can't understand such worries.
Shamara·
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I'm sorry Hun. I always end up crying to my boyfriend whenever I see how huge I am. One time I was wearing his shirt and he said I was stretching it out. I started crying for like thirty minutes and the whole time he tried cheering me up and making me feel beautiful. Emotions are wild girl 🙂
Emily·
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@lmullan33, I don't get it. you wouldn't make comments about someone's size of they weren't pregnant, why is it open season when they are?? I get offended if someone asks "are you pregnant". I just want to bust out an Arnold impression and go "It's not a tuuumah!!!"
Lisa·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)
@emily18234, I say that all the time! I don't understand why people think they can say something when I'm pregnant because they def wouldn't if I wasn't. A bit frustrating and I was sort of surprised it hit me the way it did because normally it wouldn't bother me.
Lisa·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)
@mtb2016, I'm with you. Emotions are running wild today for whatever reason. I'm wearing my husbands shorts and sweatpants to bed because nothing fits of mine lol. Hey I'm comfy though lol
Shamara·
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I always wear my boyfriends shirts now 'cause that's all that fits me without being tight on me. Lol as long as your comfortable and snug nothing else should matter (:
Lisa·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)
True story @mtb2016
Lisa·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (29 нед.)
If one more person ask me if there's two in there I am going to flip lol