I feel like I'm doing this on my own & when our daughter gets here I'll be raising her alone. I'm with the father, & he loves me & our daughter but he's not involved with the pregnancy. I had to force him to go to just one doctor appt. He doesn't ever wanna feel her move. I was living with my parents, & my boyfriend & I recently just started renting a house together. & will be moving in within the next week. I'm scared living together will make our relationship worse. He's always with his friends & his one friend me & him used to live with. Which my boyfriend still does. But he smoked in the house so I moved back with my parents. While I left most of my stuff there. Such as toaster, pots, pans, plates, bowls, mugs, cups, etc. Him & his friend use my stuff everyday. But I'm afraid my boyfriend will let him keep my stuff that I paid for.
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@mommy_faith, He did at first. Now when she moves & I go to reach for his hand he's like "I always feel her" He's always wanted a baby girl. He was so different before I became pregnant. He wanted a family. Now that it's actually happening it seems like he doesn't want the responsibility. I'm hoping it changes once she's here..
He doesn't want to feel her move? That is the best part of being pregnant! I think that if he is this disconnected and distant during your pregnancy I would expect it to be the same when the baby comes.. I'm sorry that's tough. You just need to speak your mind and tell him how you feel about everything. If he doesn't care or change then there is no room for him in your lives!
Once you start living together it should change. You'll see eachother everyday. So it could be good and it could be bad. everyones different