EXACTLY 👏 spot on. I told him. I'm not gonna talk no more. I'm just going to start treating people how they treat me. "oh u don't want me to get his ear piece...OK" then just do it anyway. no more acknowledging u if u can't acknowledge me. simple. being submissive to some one who doesn't submit back doesn't work. My lesson. thanks for listening to me vent doll

It is very disrespectful in my opinion @sparklez. I mean if y'all weren't together and he had full custody, okay. I could understand. But the fact that he went ahead and shaved your sons head AFTER you told him not to and even have the AUDACITY to say, "Its my son too?" No. Just no. I'd be like, "You know what? How would you like it if..if I asked to pierce my sons ears, you say no, and I went and did it anyways? You wouldn't be happy about it, now would you? Put yourself in my shoes here. I asked you nicely not to shave his head, and you did it anyways. If I was to do something you didn't like, you'd be just as frustrated as me. And don't even give me the 'It'll grow back' speech. I feel so upset that you went behind my back. If you were to say no to me, I may not be too happy or maybe a little upset, but okay. I would respect your decision. The least you could do is respect mine."

@syou13, thanks u doll. I'm highly frustrated we spoke about it. its so disrespectful...wth. What hurts the most no lie is if he had told me not to do something pertaining to our children I would listen to him. but the fact that he didn't listen to me bothers my soul.

@syou13, than u doll. I'm highly frustrated we spoke about it. its so disrespectful...wth. What hurts the most no lie is if he had told me not to do something pertaining to our children I would listen to him. but why can't u listen to me???

Completely shaved? I love his hair. 💛 Yes he may be his son, but the least he could do is come to either a)An agreement or b) Talk about it first. And if you did talk and he still did it, then I understand the frustration.