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I need advice on nursing!! Baby has been nursing for over an hr.. He stops I lay him down he starts to cry and looks for…

I need advice on nursing!! Baby has been nursing for over an hr.. He stops I lay him down he starts to cry and looks for the boob!! How do I know if he's getting enough!! This is harder than I expected. HELP!

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bella91

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keep nursing if he's rooting

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hannahk0624

HannahМама сына-младенца

make sure you drink lots of water as well! it helps with your milk and keeps you both hydrated! :) good luck! :)

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lucylu2

LucyluМама двоих (младенец)

Thank you so much!!! I went to the doc today and she wants me to give him 1oz of formula after feedings since he was dehydrated. She said only until my milk comes on so hopefully in the next couple of days it's here. @hannahk0624

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hannahk0624

HannahМама сына-младенца

You're welcome sweetie. I'm new at this too. my son is a week and a day old today. he cluster fed alot at 3 and 4 days old and now he's gone back to normal and it was so worth it because he gained weight and he learned to latch good. I know it's tiring and tempting to give up but you can do this! message me if you ever need to talk :). don't forget this mommy is up all times of the night too :)

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mommywifelifestyle

AshleaМама сына-младенца

@lucylu2, trust me I know the feeling he is my 1st as well i had moments just want to give him a bottle of formula just to get a break was so overwhelmed just keep in your mind this is your plan this is whats best for your baby your body is literally made to do this you did the hardest part carried him 9 months and delievered him now you get to nurture him and watch him grow up giving him the good stuff is helping both of you in the long run plus it makes you feel good that you can do this for your child if you ever need to talk just message me

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missing41user

missing41userМама троих детей

At 4 days old he's nursing so much to build your supply. He needs to be at the breast as much as possible.

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lucylu2

LucyluМама двоих (младенец)

My son is 4 days.. @atlas it's been rough. I know I still have some time to go. Thank you ladies

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mommywifelifestyle

AshleaМама сына-младенца

my son would do that all the time sounds like cluster feeding or growth spurt as long as he's gaining weight and pooing and peeing he should be fine. I worried about that also I am assuming he is about to have a check up so they will be able to tell you if he gained weight or not. My son is 8 weeks old and still does that I just give him a pacifier when he will take it but dont give up you can do this

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missing108user

missing108userМама троих детей

yes that's when they have the most growth spurts is when they're newborns

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lucylu2

LucyluМама двоих (младенец)

@aek91, thanks. Even if he's 4 days old? Sorry I'm a FTM and I'm worried and tired.

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missing108user

missing108userМама троих детей

cluster feeding its normal he's going through a growth spurt keep feeding on demand it helps your milk establish

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lucylu2

LucyluМама двоих (младенец)

@supermom1104, @hannahk0624 thank you tiu ladies

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hannahk0624

HannahМама сына-младенца

it'll be okay, I promise :). your baby may also just want mommy. after feeding him try to put a pacifier in and hold him for a little bit before putting him down

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supermom1104

BANNEDМама дочки-младенца

if u want to make sure he eats enough let him suck til he let's go

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lucylu2

LucyluМама двоих (младенец)

@hannahk0624, that pacify is ready to be used. I guess it just worries me, I want to make sure he eats enough. He's only 4 days old

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missing98user

missing98userМама сына-младенца

Use a pack if you want to. It should comfort him.

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lucylu2

LucyluМама двоих (младенец)

It's so hard to get him to lay down for a nap.. I'm to the point where I want to give up... I feel horrible

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hannahk0624

HannahМама сына-младенца

cluster feeding is very normal. your baby is growing. my thoughts are that he's also wanting to suckle for comfort so maybe ask your pediatrician if it's okay to pacify your baby. I did for my baby who I'd a week old and it helps.

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missing98user

missing98userМама сына-младенца

Either that or he just like to stay on the boob. My baby liked staying on my boob to fall asleep. He even just nibbled on them.

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lucylu2

LucyluМама двоих (младенец)

Is that normal? @queeneden

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missing41user

missing41userМама троих детей

Sounds like cluster feeding.

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