Only 17 weeks and my bf's aunt is already talking about making a room in her house into a nursery and whisking away my…

not the hormones been there . my mother in law basically grew up my husbands niece since her mom wasnt really around so she thought it would be the same way with my little one ,i set things straight right away ,she cannot take him anywhere or get him without my permission, get after him or even do as much as spank/raise her voice at him . and my husband had my back once my littlw one was about to be born i told my husband and sister in law to not mention it to her till the day after because she was already wanting to take the 7 hr trip to be at the hospital i wanted the moment for my partner and i with our baby . mext few days she was around but i didnt let her carry him much i could tell it bothered her . and she would always try to make my husband give our baby formula knowing that i was breastfeeding ! ive been breastfeeding 13 months and she still tries to meddle into it i just back her off . i just think its better telling her way before baby comes along

I also went thru that with my mother in law. She use to live 5 minutes away from our old apartment & when my baby girl was born. I had her there every single daaaayyyy allll dddaaayyyy ! Ugh i would get sooo frustrated because i wanted to spend time with my daughter since she was in nicu for 2 weeks. But nope she will be there, she wanted to take her a shower all the time , she wanted to dress her like she wanted , & she wiuld never let me do anything with her 😔

Until we moved away lol she hardly comes & sees her every week. But at least she's not at my house eveeryy single day & aaalll daaayy !

RIGHT!!! LOL uhh it makes me mad. yeah we will see when my baby is here who will be doing what lol

My bf being the same way "you should be happy she wants to help us and be involved" .. Too involved lol I'm the mama not her @caddiebugg

I don't know. but it's irritating that he won't say anything to her an just keeps letting her think that it's okay.

I was wondering if I was just being hormonal and crazy bc that's how he made me feel when I made it clear I wasn't exactly thrilled w his aunt's behavior.. I'm glad I'm not alone!

oh me either. I try to tell my boyfriend that he needs to tell her that this is our baby not theres. we will be the one raising it not her an he said no they will be to. umm no? so it looks like she keeps it up I will have to be one who sets everyone straight. after all I'm the one who body is changing an will go through the birth of it an be taking care of it most of the time so I think I have a little say in what will he/she will be doing. @lilmama23

definitely not alone, my MNL call mine and my husbands baby "OUR" baby and I was no you mean your grandchild and OUR baby while pointing at her son and I. lol.

@caddiebugg, im afraid of the same problem.. my bf's mother had him young and abandoned him so the aunt basically raised him as her own since he was little but never had her own kids.. not liking the vibe I'm getting at all

my mother in law is acting like she will be the one who is raising my kid. an she gets to tell me all the time what I will an won't be eating an how she will always be dressing my baby in this or that. it's annoying me lol it's my kid an my body an i will eat whatever an dress my baby how ever I want to.

your not over reacting at all I think I'm the same way