Lol oh I understand that completely. do you guys live together? how long have you been together now ? honestly if he is alright with not being the actual father to your child id say he's a keeper. not many men are willing to step up and take on another man's child. your hormones are all over the place when your pregnant. it confuses us. lol I was having dreams about my friends that are girls and it made it confusing. lol but I knew my husband was the one for me and my hormones were not gonna ruin my marriage. if you ever need to message me if your having one of those days your more then welcome to. :) I'm always able to help a friend out. do you feel good about this relationship generally ? or are you unhappy.? think about what will happen afterwards . if you break up with him will the other guy step up if he is the father ? will you have lots of support from family and friends ? if you break up with him and it is his child what are you going to do? Lol you dont have to answer all these questions or anything. just something to think about. cause pregnancy is hard. especially labor. my first wasn't hard except for the pushing. but my second was . I'm so grateful I had my husband there with me.

@s-moore21, that's what I'm trying to do. I'm trying to tell myself not to be dumb and see how I feel after the baby. I messed up a lot before because I like to just act and not think. I always tell him I'm not sure really. And every since pregnant I keep having dreams of exes and it messes with me more.

its most likely just the hormones. I felt awful about this when I was pregnant. But I felt the same way about my husband and we has just gotten married too. and I didnt want to feel that way. I still loved him very much. but my hormones were making me feel weird about it. but now that I'm not pregnant. I want to be with my husband more then ever. :) dont ruin a good relationship in less your 100% sure you dont want to be with him. if he's a good man at least give him a chance until you feel yourself again. :)