I think I just need to rant but my sex life has taken a huge step backwards... My hubby and I went from having sex…
I think I just need to rant but my sex life has taken a huge step backwards... My hubby and I went from having sex everyday multiple times a day to trying to have sex every few days. We had sex on Sunday night before bed and we tried on Tuesday morning and again this morning. It starts off good but then he just goes soft and says he's over it... Tuesday was the same thing and I just said its ok and brushed it off but today I know I gave him the puppy look because now I'm starting to think he's not attracted to me or something and of course he gives me the line it's me baby, not you, don't worry about it. Every girl LOVES to hear the it's not you its me line especially when they are pregnant 😓 I don't know what to think anymore
Jessica·
My sex life has become null and void, my fiance has the issue of going soft also, I get the same "it's me baby, not you". But I still feel like he isn't attracted to me anymore...
Nicole Alison·
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@keca3691, it's to the point I don't even want to try to have sex because I know if he can't perform I'll cry :/ this morning I wasn't even in the mood but I didn't want to miss an opportunity :P he just woke up and was lets go and like 5 minutes in he just stopped and said I can't and literally went showered got dressed and went to work.... I don't want to bring it up because I know he'll either get frustrated because I'm talking about it again or he'll same the same thing it's not me its him but at the same time I feel like I should because it's been bothering me :/
Jessica·
@nicolerawrr, I don't even try for sex anymore, bc I too, end up crying. So it's a pretty sore subject between me and him bc he's frustrated that I think he doesn't find me attractive anymore. I wish I could give you some friendly advice, but idk what to do girl :-/
Nicole Alison·
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@keca3691, it just kinda makes it worse that he's been ok up until now and I'm 34 weeks I'm almost done haha last night I brought it up and he said he has a lot on his mind and he promises everything will go back after this weekend so we will see. Fingers crossed
Heavenly·
Мама троих детей
he helped put that baby there...he better love all that roundness and them marks...my husband tries to video me a fat and nude...
Nicole Alison·
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@mommi321, he says it's not because I'm pregnant he just hasn't been in the mood... Surprisingly he hasn't tried to take any pictures or videos or anything
Heavenly·
Мама троих детей
well hopefully all will be well shortly..yeah I dont enjoy the days he wants to take pictures of me all big and round.lol
Nicole Alison·
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@mommi321, I hope so too :P however I don't see that happening especially because I'm going into my last month very soon. I've kinda gave up. Have you talked to him about it? One day you'll look back on the pictures and smile (hopefully)