I need to vent. My hubby and I broke up for 8 or 9 months. we weren't together pretty much for the whole year of 2014 we…
I need to vent. My hubby and I broke up for 8 or 9 months. we weren't together pretty much for the whole year of 2014 we were together Jan and Feb. then back together at the end of September. got married in October and found out I was pregnant in Nov. however in the time we were together. he was with a much younger girl 17 at the time and he got her pregnant in July. they had a baby boy in April of 2015. tho she won't let him see the baby at all. no pictures not even a message telling him the baby's name. we had to investigate what the baby was and I found out how much the baby weighed by talking to her like I was a guy. she lied about everything about him. he was hitting her and putting her down. and how I beat her up when she was 7 months pregnant. but 1 I know I'd go to jail if I did and 2 I was 3.5 months pregnant. why would I out my baby in jeopardy. anyways. she has blocked me and my family from her new facebook. and she's block my husband and his family. it bothers me bc she has my husband's child and will not let him see him at all. she's playing 12 year old games. and it hurts bc he has another kid with someone else when he said I was his only one forever and always. I still don't know how to cope with it but I try to be I don't want my marriage to go down hill bc of her.
Esha·
Be strong hun.
Jessica Stanford·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
does he know her first and last name??
Rashel Sparkman·
Мама сына-младенца
well yeah we know that. I have her facebook but she's set to private and she won't add me. she's blocked me
Bianca·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (21 нед.)
Maybe the baby isn't his and that's why she never let him see it or anything?? If he has her name he should file for visitation/partial custody through the courts
Rashel Sparkman·
Мама сына-младенца
that's what I was thinking. and taking her to court cost money and we don't have that right now to take her to court.
dymund·
Obviously @jessicastanford8115 if she went into her facebook its obviously that they know her first and last name.. lol and @mamasparkman dont give up hun there has to be a way for him to see the baby and when he does he should have a dna test done to see if the baby is really his what if its not his and your baby is his only baby you should find a way and know for sure... good luck hun...
Rashel Sparkman·
Мама сына-младенца
thanks. just really hard. some times I don't know what to do. when I brought up the baby not being his. all offensive. and said well he was the only guy she was with and accused me of cheating when we were dating when I have never cheated on him.
Jessica Stanford·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
the way it works in my state is he the dad goes up to the courts and give them her first and last name. he could get it to were she is made to let him see his baby
Rashel Sparkman·
Мама сына-младенца
yeah I'm not sure if it works that way here. we live in Mo.