I appreciate my family & my husband's family support. Yet, I feel suffocated because they want to handle everything for me. I don't want a baby shower & I want to buy my baby everything; I don't want the extra attention - I've always been shy. I understand they're excited, I just want to be left alone to make decisions for my own kid.
Knowing My Mother In laws, one I believe will be okay about not having the baby shower but the other (my husband's birth mom) will throw a fit & think I hate her if I stand up for my self. 😔 She felt unwanted because I had already bought a car seat & didn't consult her about it.