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my fiances kids do the same thing but they live with there mom who hangs them over his head... Taking your son to a counselor might help him to cope with it they will help him.. They can help your daughter to they will break it down for them to understand in ways we can't .. I wish you the best and I hope they get better and dont stress not good for the baby but we on this page are here if you need to cent or talk

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Girl I love you fuck Brandon Dusty is an amazing father. Little Brandon will make if through this he is one of the strongest kids I know and one day he will hate his dad and it will be his own fault but little Brandon will never forget how supportive you were through this time

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the best thing you can do is explain that their dad didn't leave because he didn't love them. kids will sometimes get to a point of thinking that he didn't love them or why weren't they enough to get him to stay if he did. as long as you don't show resentment, i believe they'll come out of it. therapy is also an option. but the best thing you can do is to let them know every day they are loved (i'm sure you do) & that they are blessed to have someone that although isn't their real dad, loves them too. because some kids just have a mommy or a daddy. and even though that won't make up for the decision that their real dad made for himself, they gained more love than most experience in a lifetime. <3

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Try getting them into therapy. It could help a lot. It will at least give them an avenue to express themselves without getting into trouble or feeling like they don't want to upset you. Just keep reassuring your kids that everything will be fine. Keep allowing them to see you and your fiancé together and allow him to have some alone time with them. Even if they disapprove. In the long run it will work out for the better. Also see if there are any step parent or kids support groups. They are just confused right now

:/ yikes. it sounds like he's finally hitting that stage of resentment. I saw it happen with the 5 kids I used to nanny. same situation completely. although the oldest was a girl and she took a liking to me I sat down and talked to her as much as I could to see if she'd tell me anything..like how she felt and so on. and then I'd go back to her mother and let her know. maybe he just needs someone he can trust. and someone who can positively influence him. he may not want it to be your fiance bevause he feels like he's taking his dads place. (which we know he isn't but kids think that way and it alters them completely) although you're happy. at the end of the day he's always gonna wanna see you and his dad together. and it'll always be that way for him probably. maybe see if counseling can help. or maybe if one of your friends has a responsible teenager who can babysit for you and get to Know him and HELP him with how he's feeling. I know the little girl I was helping was bad off until I came into play, she wasn't following rules. she back talked, her grades were slipping. and it was tough at first til I decided to get real with her. and it made her click.. kind of. ya know? I told her it could go two ways. I be the mean nanny. or I can be your friend, and someone who cares for you. she chose way 2, and I stepped in and helped with her attitude, her study habits. and now she's more accepting to her mom's husband who she now calls her daddy. it took me about... a year to get her straight but her mother still thanks me everyday for doing what I did. by just simply getting to know the child and being there for her. stuff like that is rough on a kid. and it's a hard transition. maybe he needs someone a little older but.. not too old..kinda like... a younger role model. @dustash