I'm so sad because my partner got this new job that will make him unable to go to anymore prenatal appts with me. When I was pregnant with my son he didn't miss not a single appt. he was actively involved in making sure I listened to the Drs and he participated in my pregnancy with my son and this baby fully. He loves me pregnant and every aspect of it. From now until labor he won't be able to go and it honestly just makes it all that less exciting if he doesn't go. He's literally my partner in everything. Income and the job does come first tho. 😩
My husband went to our first week 8 ultrasound, the 12th, and the 19th (gender). The rest I told him it's okay because it's just checking my vitals and only lasts 15min but takes 30 minutes to wait for doctor. I mean, it'd be sweet to have him there but there's no point for him. Make sure he attends the gender appt! You've got this momma!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
What time should I make my fiancé son go to bed tonight ? (He is 4)
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...

Is anyone going to judge me for giving my unborn son some McDonalds?
Luckily our gender appt was last week...1 day before he started his new job