I felt the same way. Before my daughter I was very small after I had her I was at the largest I had ever been and couldn't lose the weight because of the implant bc I had. even after it came out I got bigger and was very unhappy, almost three years after my daughter was born and I was nowhere near my weight I was before or wanted. Now I'm pregnant again with a boy and he is already very big and I'm only half way. I know with the way my life is now it will be very hard to get back into shape and I've come to learn that is fine and my husband told and shows me he will always love me. My daughter knows me by mommy being a bit chunky and it doesn't bother her and that is all that matters.

still having flab is not only uncomfortable its also ugly that's how I think of myself everyone else with flab is cute but not me I hate it I hate my body

@xoamac, @tahtahme @jenndean66 I love my son so very much, it just has changed my body in a way I'm not entirely used to, and with having another one on the way I'm afraid I'll get myself go. it sounds stupid, but it's a big fear. skinny is not always beautiful but it's what I knew and I know my little belly is a remembrance of my children and I will be happy with that.

omg I'm going through the same I'm hoping I can schedule a csection/tummy tuck at the same time!

Maybe after this one or maybe not, that's your choice, but skinny doesn't always mean beautiful.

Look at it this way.. You didn't work hard all day everyday just for your flat stomach to be gone again bc of a new baby lol maybe after this one. 🤗👍