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Arianna
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While I'm sitting in the hospital after going into labor at 29 weeks with a baby girl that has problems already, my SO's…

While I'm sitting in the hospital after going into labor at 29 weeks with a baby girl that has problems already, my SO's ain't was nice enough to give him $100 to use for food/gas/other important thing. That was yesterday! He asked me today if he could borrow some money to go get food and I asked what happened to all the money he had. I just got put out of work and only have $200 with one more check coming. I still need a breast pump and a few other things for the baby and he's asking me for money. Seriously... I just can't right now bc it's completely upsetting me and I don't want to start labor back up again.

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tahtahme

Tahtahme

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yeah, explain that and stand firm, you have a child to worry about.

arianna321

Arianna

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@elizabeths_mommy, I see nothing wrong with it either, as long as the money is being brought in a relationship equally. @tahtahme no I don't trust things will work out, especially money wise. I'm 30 weeks pregnant and he hasn't worked at all during the entire time. I've had to provide everything the baby has. I've done pretty well and I'm not complaining about buying the things, it would just make it easier if he would help. I feel like I'm a single parent instead of still being in a relationship with the baby's father.

atlmommy

Jen

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Um don't you dare give him money.

tahtahme

Tahtahme

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It sounds like you don't trust he will provide those things in time...if you could, you would have given the money. Through his own behavior he has driven you to the point where you can't trust things will work out, so maybe you shouldn't give, especially if he is being a kid and putting headphones in...

tiredmomsince2016

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Мама дочки-младенца

Don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with women giving money to their SO but he should be helping you provide for you and the baby and not taking the money YOU make.

arianna321

Arianna

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No he can't give me an answer. He just looks at me and he put headphones in. I understand that but with the baby having a higher chance of being a preemie I need a really good pump to ensure my milk will come in and stay that way. He has known I need these things for weeks. @tahtahme

february2016

Jessica💕

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don't give him shit

tahtahme

Tahtahme

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...did he say where the money went? What did he say when you explained you needed those things? Also, breast pump might be available at a local center or WIC or hospital or through insurance if everything gets too rough... sorry to hear though

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