Called my work to set up my short term disability since I am on bed rest. they are telling me that since I got in a car accident on December 26 that they have had me on FMLA since since I am on bed rest but I found out that I have to return to work March 19 (my wedding day) . I don't know if my son is going to be born early or not. his due date is March 9 meaning if he is born on time I only get 10 days with him. I'm heart broken and stressed beyond belief now. do I look for a new job before my fmla is up and then put in my two weeks at my current job? Do I stay at the job I have? Do I quit?
that's a very hard decision to make. with you being pregnant you won't be able to get another job for awhile. if your husband makes enough money to support you, and all the bills and feels okay with you leaving. then yea I would leave. you shouldnt have to be stressed out, and worn out over all this right now. you should be able to rest and enjoy this time. but being a parent and not having all the money you need to provide you and your family, it is f***ing hard!! and there's so many stressful things that happen at the wrong times.
my work isn't helping also cause they are like well maybe you should have planned on being on bed rest then when you did the fmla paperwork it's like I didn't plan on being in a car accident