me and my other half been together for two years and we have had a miss carriage and 5 months later i find out im prego again,well he was all excited about the baby coming then when we got home from the hospital i took ever night shift. He works 12 hour days and sometimes he gets a different work schedule and have works over night. so either 11am-11pm or 7pm-7am. when he is home he is sleeping or not helping me. i do everything around the house and take care of our son. i have no friends or family here. i just want to go home to Florida so my family can meet my son and i can have help. I feel like he wishes he never got me prego or something but i cant do this alone. I called the wedding off and now im thinking of leaving him but i love him and don't want too.
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yeah, but its different when he doesn't even want to hold his son.
my husband works 3/12 hour days and then the other 4 days he works 3.5 hours. He does that so I don't have to work. There are days he does nothing but sleep or lays around and play video games. At first it upset me but then I had to think he is providing not only for me, but his step daughter and our daughter who will be here on 5 weeks. it's hard sometimes but you have to think about why he is doing it.
you're upset because he's trying to make money for you guys with those hours what do you want from him ? do you work ? Because if you did than he probably wouldn't have those hours and you would maybe spend time with him but than most of the check would go to sitter or daycare. he's there trying so why complain how bout you go and work those hours and he does what you do
and i do have a job