I think this might be a touching topic... BUT I never understood like people's who have more than…
I think this might be a touching topic... BUT I never understood like people's who have more than one kid like 5,6 kids and is NOT FINANCIALLY stable like I don't understand. Then when you think about it you'll think they only getting pregnant either for the attention, government assistance, or their just plain DUMB I'm not bashing anyone kids are blessings and everyone has their reasonings but shouldn't your self conscious tell you have respect for yourself and keep your legs close until he put a ring on it BEFORE you pop out numerous kids but that's just me #doneventing #beingpetty
missing360user·
finally someone said it!!!!
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
I never could understand having even ONE without a stable lifestyle. What burned me up the most was seeing a GoFundMe page set up for a girl who was trying to get fertility treatment. I'm like, how ya gonna feed/clothes/provide for this baby you want us to help you pay for creating???
amanda·
Agreed. My SIL has 4 and can't afford them. They wanted a big family but DAMN at least be able to take care of them! Enjoy the food stamps my working husband helps provide.
MommyofTWO·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)
Had to people's getting over && since income tax is right around the corner && yeah the foodstamps Medicaid wic etc @tayek they probably trying to live off the government themselves && @butturfli yeah my step sister has FIVE && talking about another one... her youngest just turned one && her 4th && 5th kid were born back to back so her 4th one is 2 && her 5th is 1 and she talking about a 6th one my family and I are like instead of popping kids out left and right uhmm get them tubes tied hell I'm 22 on my second kid && I'm literally begging my Ob to tie my tubes and talking to my fiance about a vasectomy (which he won't do) but be mature about the situation and not DUMB
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
My husband and I have two biological kids (our son is due next month and our daughter is 9) and we adopted 2 nieces and 2 nephews. We ONLY have a large family because we are able to provide for them. I look at my GROCERY receipts and it's 7 to 8 hundred a month. That's RENT lol
MommyofTWO·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)
Right lol I mean unless YOU HAVE TO but just popping out kids just because like honestly I'm due next month too && I'm like idk how peoples have babies back to back like its a toll on my body PLUS I have a 2 year old who's giving me the blues && being pregnant is exhausting I applaud y'all because this baby WILL BE MY LAST
Marie·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
I have a 2year old and a 6month old and I'm 16weeks pregnant now. Me and my husband want 4kids and we can afford each and everyone of them plus our bills. I think being financially stable is the most important thing! Anyone can push out a baby but not everyone can afford to support one.
MommyofTWO·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)
Exactly but y'all planning your kids, it's kinda hypocritical when you know you PREGGERS but steady debating if you wanna keep it or abort it, then be like your boyfriend parents don't believe in abortions like are you serious you didn't lay up with his family you laid up with him && that's y'all decision not theirs but idk I just think she's plain dumb or simple minded @mariemaverick
Marie·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Yeah it is true it's not up to his family it's up to them. It's all their decision if they want to keep a baby and raise it. I hate when people think that having a baby will be so easy since they had a baby shower and got all this stuff. Being pregnant and actually having the baby is totally different. Raising a baby and providing for them isn't easy. Baby's are very expensive. I wish women would think about the big picture before having kids. @soquatriceladez